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Advice Request
This person wants to get over a guy and allow her mind to be at peace.

Answered Submission
Dear confused girl,

I understand your dilemma. It's highly possible that the mentioned guy had feelings for you/ liked you. The fact that he told you things his secrets means that he really trusts you. Further, he was "making moves on you" which shows that he did like you and said something like "I'll be waiting for you", shows that he really wants you. 1 year and 3 months seems to be very long time, and if you haven't heard anything from him I think it's time for you to move on. Live your life in peace. What I mean by that is... forget about him and start to concentrate more on yourself. Find a hobby or just anything that you like to do and get yourself busy with it. You have to remember that nothing is permanent in life. Life is too short to stress about someone whom you're not even close to.

I know that it will be hard to move on but the time will come, if you allow it to.

Love,

The Advice Column Team