ye idk.. its like this rishta doesnt have any questions for me/us.. its kinda annoying me that he doesnt have any standards like i dont want anyone who settled for me.. sorry. idc how great they are, if im your 'last option' and you dont have any legitimate questions when youre vetting someone... it just seems like im like one of his other decisions where he "just feels like doing it" thats how he did his other three degrees.
idk if i wrote this but that was one of my initial fears that im "one of those decisions" that hes made and regretted in his life so ye im not tryna be the last resort.. it doesnt matter if its arranged marriage. like you should have questions and reasonable expectations from your spouse.. like its a marriage?
how else will you vet someone properly and make sure youre compatible with them?
also, he sounds very annoyingly quiet like i really hate quiet people they really piss me off. like this kinza girl that i know... where youre the ONLY one talking... and its just awkward and its not even like they ever open up its just bare awkward and makes you want to knit or smth bc that seems more interesting.
like ik boys are boring and no one is as interesting as i am... but a BORING boring boy? nah
idk i dont wanna pre-judge him im really hoping i can feel his vibe correctly and tht he opens up more bc we've met four times now.. so he should open up and talk and im like 7 years younger than him so im kinda expecting him to be a bit chill.
anyways in shaa Allah it goes well, otherwise ma'salam
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