Today Ansel and I were meeting up to sit down and talk about what happened to weeks ago. Basically two weeks ago Ansel hosted our normal hang out movie night theme of course with everyone not just me. & so Ansel has a girlfriend and she goes by the name Lj. And it didn't really go well as you can already assume. So within the time week frame there were some indirect mouthing going on all on her part. But there is no response on our end. So now with all of this conflict between her and us....it's got Ansel in a sticky situation.
"You know I would never be into anyone that has issues with you know our nucleus right?" Ansel led off saying
"Yeah ....I know you wouldn't" I said simply answering
"To be honest I'm still confused about it all. One minute everything is cool but the next she just changed up and I never seen her do that. "Ansel said
"Well what's Lj's real problem? Is there something that we have ever done to make her be a certain way.? I asked
"You guys did nothing wrong she just was acting out for no reason at all. I mean I get how it's hard to blend in with people you don't know but that's no excuse to be rude to others you know." Ansel said
"It doesnt" I said kind of out of frustration
"What wrong?" Ansel asked
"It's nothing I was just listening to what you were saying" I said lying
"No that's not it...tell me you always tell me everything" Ansel said knowing me to well
"It's just you know that night I was trying to see what was wrong with Lj & like you said I know it can be hard to try and get to know people who are in your life & so when I did she just didnt want to listen & she was getting smart with me like you saw...& that's why I asked did I or anyone of us did anything directly or indirectly to her to the best of your knowledge because I know I've done no wrong so I can only speak for myself I don't know about the other" I said
"Nobody did anything & like you saw that night I put her in her place because that was out of line. I wouldn't let anyone come at you like that." Ansel said
"I know it's just sometimes it's hard to fight life you know ?" I said
"What your mean?" Ansel asked
"Life...you know we all get into relationships, moving place to place & everything & I just sometimes fear of loosing people I care & love so much. & I don't want anything stupid to ruin up our friendships you know...life is too short for silly misunderstandings & us not talking. I just want us to all be happy but never forget each other. My hope is that we always stay close like how we are now" I said
"We will always be together & nobody will come between that. I care about everyone and especially you.....you have always been there & you have been there at my worse & at my best & hasn't changed & your one that I know that won't......in my life especially as crazy as it's about to get..I'll always need you having my back. So you have nothing to worry about I won't let you get rid of me" Ansel said making me feel better
"That's good to know" I said
"I'm happy you feel that way just remember to stay this way. I really don't know how I will act when you get a boyfriend one of these days. Your boyfriend will probably hate me" Ansel said making me laugh....him and his feelings
"Oh Ansel what am I going to do with you" I said
"We will always be so never worry ok?" Ansel said
"Ok" I said & then I laughed because he got me to do it. & he laughed
"I hate you" I said laughing
"I'm sorry it's just so easy....you always fall for it" Ansel said laughing
"You set me up always" I said laughing
"I know" Ansel said
we then talked somewhere and then he had to go home and pack. He was going away a to of course work and we discussed that we will get to hang out again really soon.