Inevitable Flaw

Private Message Request

I got a couple messages from some queens asking about how to find the perfect spouse after the previous chapters. Again, please don't use this book for any form of life decisions or idealize the characters (especially Adam) as model spouses. Quick disclaimer- I am not a marriage expert since I am not even married yet LOL and so I would suggest you consult someone who is more experienced in this area but since a lot of you have been messaging me about this- I thought I'd make a detailed post for my beautiful sisters. This is not an all end guide but it is fairly exhaustive. I did take the time to think this through so if your interested in reading, feel free to. If you have any other suggestions etc that may be helpful or you want to add anything to what I've discussed, feel free to add them and we can have a fun friendly discussion in the comments :) This is for my fellow sisters but it can also apply to brothers as well.

I found an incredible video (but can't upload it here as its not on youtube) and quick list breakdown explaining what your priorities should be in your search for a pious man. The video is on Zaidesbaide's instagram (his most recent video I believe). Zaidesbaide's social media is generally very informative so I would suggest following him if you want to.

Here's a summary he typed of his video-

I would strongly advice you sisters to be aware of your islamic rights in marriage as this knowledge is VERY important. I have included a short list here: