Advice, Help & Support

31 - That Brown Eyed Girl

I am having guy confusion. So first, theres this guy, anf we've been friend for like ever. And he flirtation and everything, but he recently got a girl friend like 4 months ago.. but he still flirts! He even kissed ME on the cheek before she got one on the cheek! Then, he let me wear his jacket.. then he **latex his head I. my Lap and I just played with his hair but stopped for like 2 seconds and he said I like when you do that to my hair. And he always sits on me! And one time.. he was sitting on me and like I feel asleep in his arms.. and he just held me and leaned his head on mine. He says he does it to just get on my nerves and everyone swears we should go out and that wed be a better couple. He even said "if I ever break up with **** I'm making out with you first!" But all I'm trying to know is if everyone is right, and he does like me.. I hope to hear from you soon and you can help me,  

That Brown Eyed Girl.  

** (Like.. okay so I was sitting by the window and he came and he came and laid his head in my lap)  

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Dear That Brown Eyed Girl

Okay I'm going to be perfectly honest and tell you that I think you're too young to be dating just yet but if you like this guy, which you didn't mention if you do or don't, then here's the advice I'm going to give you...

Firstly, guys typically try to ''annoy'' girls when they like them. Considering that, it seems he does like you and the two of you do act a bit like a couple already.

I'd think about these things if I was you:  

1) Think about if you actually like him. As in like him, like him.

2) If he is flirting with you when he has a girlfriend already, do you think you could trust him if you were with him?

3) He's obviously not serious about his girlfriend if he jokes around saying things like "if I ever break up with **** I'm making out with you first!"

4) If you've been friends for so long, would it be weird if you started dating?

All in all, from what you've said, I think he might like you. I think you should think about what I said and then talk to him. 

Hope that's helped, good luck,

        MissAuthor2B xoxo