They say they care, they do mean it.
Yet they always have their own opinions for your safe little future, of how you should lead it, what you should choose. They choose it for you. We all do this, don't we? Telling people what they should do because that's what we think is better for them.
And they mean no harm.
But, this is for you, for me, who do all of the above; look and listen. Pay attention to what they want to do, to their choice, to what they say, to what they decide. And really listen to them.