Confidence at the swimming pool

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Well its me again :) Your advice helped, thankyou! Anyway, since my crush is one of my guy friends, I've invited him to my birthday party alond with 3 other guys. AND I'M TERRIFIED! We'll be going swimming so that scares me A LOT. Please help me, I need more confidence here :/ 

From- Friendzoned

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Dear Friendzoned, 

You're welcome! C: 

More confidence eh? Well for a swimming party? Wear something your comfortable in, okay? If you want to wear a one piece then wear a one piece but if you wear a bikini or a one piece make sure it still flattering and cute C: If you don't want people to look at you until you get in the pool then a cute cover up will solve your problems! If you want to wear a cover up in the pool as well then go for it! A cute white loose shirt in the pool is just as attractive but I'd say not to go into that route unless you want it in the way while you swim. Tie your hair up so that your hair doesn't get all in your way in stuff so then you won't be so self conscious if it looks good or not. There really isn't much to confidence then to feel comfortable in what you are wearing to the pool. If you are then your confidence will come naturally. If they stare just remember they're just staring at your hotness girl! Smile and don't show that your are too self conscious with anything no matter what (if this is the case) and have fun! I know it's hard being a girl around guys but it will be fine c:

Alex

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