I need a break. I need some time off from Thomas. It's all too much for me. I love him so much & I want to help him & I'm trying so hard to be more spiritual when I deal w/ people...but I can't around him. He makes it so difficult on me. I don't know what to do or how to understand it. It's so hard to help him or show him how much I care & how I'm changing for him when he refuses to be the bigger man & doesn't try to understand where people are coming from. Especially me. I mean, I've never tried to hurt him badly or insult him, and yet he goes off and never defends me or sticks up for me, and calls me a selfish, self-centered bitch basically. I've ALWAYS made people see the good in him & I've been trying to work around his faults. But all he sees are mine. I never really believed him when he told me he loved me, but now it's clear to me. it's just like me & Keith, only I'm Keith & Thomas is me: only concerned w/ himself & using me. I don't think he'll ever care about me like I do him.
And after that nasty text message, I see that he has a lot of growing up & maturing to do. I'm SO upset & hurt & un-trusting of him now. Never EVER in a million years did I think Thomas would insult me & hurt me as badly as he has. I don't trust him & don't believe him anymore & most of all, I don't know him anymore. That sounded SO unlike him...I guess I was fooling myself all along. The advice I've been getting is to talk to him, but leave it at that. I don't know what to do though. I'm so unsure & confused. I want to work through this & love him & want to be with him, but then again, if he's not the person I think he is & his family dislikes me...I just don't know. And yet deep down, like my father said, I do know what to do. And like I told Thomas, I know EXACTLY what to do. I have to leave and stop this. My dad says "take control & stop getting hurt".
So that's what I'm going to do> I'm writing him a letter explaining everything & hopefully I can talk to him face to face tomorrow after church & tell him very clearly how much he hurt me and that while I still love/want him, he showed me that I need to back off and let him mature b/c I have no idea if he's going to do that to me again. I can't keep riding this roller-coaster of sweet Thomas-angry Thomas. Plus, the light is gone from his eyes whenever he looks at me. it's like I'm not even there anymore. It's so depressing right now...I'm invisible to him.
-Rane C.
[Before this entry, a couple days maybe, Thomas & I got in this HUGE fight (our first) and a lot of people got unnecessarily involved in it because it was over Thomas' younger sister and the next morning I woke up to the nastiest text message I've ever recieved, even to this day. We didn't speak to each other for a week and avoided each other at church. That fight and text message is the reason for this entry.]
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The Diary Project 2-Relationships
Non-FictionRane's almost out of high school and she's already out of her first relationship. How will her newly budding friendship with Thomas fare? And will she be able to hold her life together as she moves into the newest phase of her life?