J - Joking around with you:
Most of his jokes are personal jabs at himself, because he knows how much he frustrates you and how he hasn't exactly been a solid lover who's been there when you need it. You always scold him for getting down on himself and he can't help but chuckle, knowing you always looked out for him (even when he was the person hurting himself).
K - Kissing you:
He really likes to cup your face, squishing your cheeks slightly and looking deeply into your eyes before he leans down for a kiss. You joke that he's a true romantic at heart, who can't help but have that physical connection before he does anything intimate with a person, to which he has to agree.
V - Vexing each other:
It's very easy for him to vex you, mostly because he never appears concerned about himself. He constantly worries you with how often he pushes his body to its limit, and you're worried that one day, he really might die from the overexertion. It's a sensitive topic in the household, but after he retires officially, things become much more peaceful.