Moving on is very hard. We tend to hold on someone who is no longer with us, we tend to hold on the past, we tend to hold on the memories. It is very hard for us to let go and to forget but it is very easy for them to let us go and forget about us.
When a relationship gone wrong, it will be ended up with a very painful farewell and a toxic relationship will always ended up with painful farewell. I had been through in a toxic relationship, where it was very easy for him to forget and move on to another person. I wonder why it is so easy for him while I am struggling with my emotion and crying every night over him. After days of being in the dark, I realised something, I was thinking about him with someone else other than me, he must be so happy now I thought, he must be smiling, he must be living his life to the fullest with another girl while I am here crying over him every night while he is smiling. I was thinking this is not even fair for me as I did nothing wrong but I am the one who is struggling and being sad now while it should be him crying, being guilty and living in the dark because it was him, the reason behind my pain. So I decided to stand up again, not for him, but for me. I need to seek for my justice and to seek the justice, I need to take care of myself and show him that I am okay without him.
So in order to move on, think about the fairness between you and your partner. You never did wrong, so why do you have to stay in the dark? Crying every night? It should not be you. So seek for the justice by taking care of yourself, loving yourself more. It is never been fair for you to stays forever in the dark when you never did anything wrong. Get out from it, to be fair on yourself.
