Night of 17th
Work ended to the usual
And a novelty
My ride home overlapped with the weekly shopping haul
So I third-wheeled into The Hub to help my parents shop for the house.
True, I'd rather stay at home or the car that's second best, but "filial piety" echoed in my ears as joints soundlessly stretched in my leisurely pace by their sides.
I'd lose nothing, I told myself;
Winding down the stay with free benefits in quiet additions of what I liked into a pair of shopping carts....
But something interesting happened.
Unplanned action in inaction
Simply put: My batteries died.
Now many might think,
"So? It's just a phone- or what could it be?"
This is my cochlear implant we're talking about-
My ear, you see.
Usual evening shopping hubbub
Midweek
Turned to a silent trip from fruit crate to crate
Mid-speech.
I told the parents and quietly carried on, manning the trolley and bagging what's weighed.
Corner's pressure raised to list words unremembered
Signs spelled or used foreign in local- since ASL is not Kenyan all the time.
There was no shame or embarrassment because I've accepted and fallen for my deaf identity.
There was only a short internal complaint-
"That the hassle is unnecessary".
Trying to sign continuously was a fun challenge though
And I tagged along
The headache induced by my seasonal cold
Fading later on
As I picked what I liked and what we need.
The whole experience got me thinking
Thinking such that I said out loud from the back of the car
"This was nice. I'm really tempted to do this for at least 24 hours and see how I do".
'Cause it was nice.
Refreshing.
Quiet.
Challenging.
Calm.
Honestly simple.
Easy.
My mum looked back, showing a shocked expression from shotgun
Out of amusement at the idea
Not discomfort
Since parents are only bothered when child is bothered by a bother
My deafness is old news
No news
In this family.
But I was serious.
In that mere hour the pressure of communication and my culture of constant intimate observation
Reminded me of what I'd taken for granted
Of what I'd forgotten.
My culture.
One of many.
The ideal space
To absorb my vernacular
One of many.
Yes. Yes, I should seriously consider 24 hour deafness
And wholly experience my claimed identity as an artwork of deafness
Being an ambassador for those still living in the misconception that disability is incapability
To those who say so without knowing better.
Yes, the music is gone
But beauty can be found manywhere
So pity is unneeded.
Smile with me instead.
Tonight was very interesting.
A/N: September 23rd, 2019
Happy 2019 International Day of Sign Languages
Sign with Me.
Let's all learn something new this year.
Edited- 24 September, 2019
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