I'VE BEEN SEEING POSTS ABOUT INFIDELITY AND I ADMIT IT'S SO FRUSTRATING TO SEE CHEATERS!!! 😖 IT'S SO HEARTBREAKING TO READ THEIR DREAM LOVE STORY TURNED INTO A NIGHTMARE.
ONE THING I CAN ONLY SAY IS TO TALK ABOUT THE PROBLEM/ISSUE INSTEAD OF FINDING WAYS TO MAKE IT WORST! LACK OF COMMUNICATION IS ONE OF THE CAUSES OF SPLITTING UP! LACK OF THE DESIRE TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM LEADS TO FALLING APART!
TALK ABOUT THE PROBLEM INSTEAD OF MESSAGING/TALKING TO SOMEONE ELSE. IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH YOUR WIFE/HUBBY/BF/GF, TALK TO THEM, FIX IT! DON'T EVER LOOK FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO COMFORT YOU. YOU ARE NOT HELPING TO SOLVE THE ISSUE, YOU ARE MAKING IT WORSE. THROUGH TALKING YOU'LL REALIZE IMPORTANT FACTORS IN A RELATIONSHIP. A RELATIONSHIP DOESN'T WORK IF ONLY ONE PERSON TRIES TO SAVE IT AND MAKE IT WORK. THE COUPLE SHOULD WORK TOGETHER IN THE FIRST PLACE TO SAVE THE RELATIONSHIP (OR MARRIAGE). BUT WHAT IF ONE OF THEM HAS FOUND SOMEONE ELSE BETTER THAN THEIR PARTNER, WHO CAN FILL THE VOID, WHO CAN REPLACE HIM/HER, WHO CAN DO SO MUCH GREATER THINGS THAN THE ORIGINAL? IT WOULDN'T EVEN HAPPEN IF THEY JUST TALK IN THE FIRST PLACE. THEY CHOSE TO ADD FUEL TO THE FIRE! AND THAT'S WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP STARTS TO CRUMBLE!!!
THEREFORE, I CONCLUDE THAT IT DOESN'T REALLY MATTER HOW LONG YOU'VE BEEN TOGETHER IF ONE DOESN'T CHOOSE YOU ANYMORE! IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW IN LOVE YOU WERE ONCE IF ONE DOESN'T LOVE YOU ANYMORE! IT'S SCARY THAT THERE IS EXPIRATION IN LOVE! THE MEMORIES, THE BOND, THE GOOD THINGS ABOUT YOU WON'T MATTER IF ONE DOESN'T WANT YOU IN THEIR LIFE ANYMORE! WHEN ONE ISN'T CONTENTED WITH THE RELATIONSHIP ANYMORE, THEY'LL LOOK FOR WAYS TO GET RID OF YOU! THEY'LL CHEAT AND ABUSE YOU PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY. YOU'LL HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO LEAVE AND SAVE YOURSELF! IT'S SO DEVASTATING!
IT'S SO SCARY! ALL OF US HAVE FLAWS AND IMPERFECTIONS. HOWEVER, WHEN ONE SHOWS IT, PEOPLE BACK AWAY SO EASILY! THEY TELL YOU THAT THEY ACCEPT YOU YESTERDAY BUT THEY ARE READY TO LEAVE YOU TODAY! THEY ARE HAPPILY IN LOVE WITH YOU AND FAITHFUL TO YOU YESTERDAY BUT CHEAT ON YOU TODAY! THERE'S JUST NO CONTENTMENT. PEOPLE ASK FOR MORE WHEN THE GREATEST THING THEY COULD EVER HAVE ARE ALREADY WITH THEM!
(SIGHS) ............. SORRY FOR RAMBLING! JUST TIRED OF SEEING FAILED MARRIAGES. ALL I WANT TO SAY IS IF THE MARRIAGE IS ON THE ROCKS (FOR A VARIETY OF REASONS), COUPLES SHOULD TALK AND SPEAK THEIR MIND TO EACH OTHER TO SAVE IT! IT APPLIES TO BF/GF AS WELL! AND IF IT'S UNSAVABLE THEN SEPARATE ON GOOD TERMS. IT'S ALSO UNPLEASANT TO FORCE SOMEONE TO BE WITH YOU IF THEY DON'T WANT TO SPEND THEIR LIFE WITH YOU ANYMORE. LET GO! MOVE ON!
Yuchae Moon
March 26, 2019
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Unheard Voice and Unexpressed Feelings [2018-2020]
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