My thoughts on the situation!!!
(I was worried some of you won't be able to sleep,so i posted it right now)
I don't sugarcoat anything.
So when so many of you asked me my take on sidnaaz current issues i knew i will give you what i feel is true.
Feel free to agree and disagree.
1).Sidharth's behaviour in bb14?
2).Sana unfollowed him?
3).Solos trying to degrade shippers because once again they found a loophole you could say and they will milk it for all its worth.?
Allow me to start by saying
"Sbse phle veham se bahar aajao.Mujhe bahut annoy karti hai ye baat k kuch shippers apni convenience pe unka pyar use karte hain...k acha Hua toh sb bhagwan ki kripa hai aur bura hua toh kon bhgwan main toh nastik hun.
This is stanning a couple who never said they are together and in love and will marry.
JINKE PAAS KHONE K LIYE KUCH THA HI NA,UNKO KABSE BARBAADI KA DAR REHNE LAGA?
Kaisa feel hoga jab wo follow back bhi kar legi...aur story mein hasegi bhi aur sidharth bhi ache se enjoy kar raha hoga aur tumne apni life ke 14 din bina kisi mtlb ke khrab kar liye honge?
1).Sidharth performed some cheap tasks in bb jo as a winner bhi usko suit nahi karte aur na as someone who allegedly has a special someone out usko karna chahiye tha?His image is getting tarnished????Yahi hai na accusation?
See,phle toh ek veham aur dur karo.Sidharth se uski marzi k bina koi kuch ni kra skta...he is not someone jiske paas koi kaam ni hai like some others i won't name...he went there to do his job and every office has its own rule.
They give you a contract and eveything, wo contestant nahi hai,he has been called there for a purpose.
He was given an opportunity as a performer to make money and do what he is good at and he took it.Aur aaj se phle bhi kabhi koi task hua hai toh usne kiya hai wo with 100% conviction chahe sana ke kitna hi against hojaye concept....you can't be conditional with the facts.
K Nahi tb aur baat thi.Nahi thi...wo jeeta hai kyunki wo har cheez mein apna 100% deta hai...usne kabhi ni bola k main ni karunga kyunki ye meri maryada ke bahar hai.
Wo hamesha se task ko priority deta hai and he is a charmer from the beginning. Ye aapki aakhon ka parda hai shayad jo hta hai toh takleef de raha hai.
Aur ye jo character wala point hai...that dude had alleged 3 women in bb with his name associated with him and then sana was the 4th one.
1.Ex girlfriend, who was married but totally in his team.
2.allegedly dated him and then ruined his career or tried to whatever the thing was.
3.Had no prior connection to him,but clinged to him and he helped her every step of the way.
4.Loved him,he never said he loved her but did things for her that he wouldn't otherwise do and then we all decided that yes,this is what we stan.
Aur jo 3 ,4 aur thi ghar mein jinse he used to do healthy flirting...toh tb ni they ye neutral log iska character judge kar rahe???
Jeeta na???Jeeta ya nahi wo ye show?Kisi ne judge kiya tb character?Ye abhi tumko isliye comments dikh rahe hain kyunki 2020 mein everyone has free time.
These people sit on their ass all day and then find a place to vent their frustrations on his behavior because they expected better.
But answer this.
AAPKI EXPECTATIONS KYA HAMESHA UNKI RESPONSIBILITY HO SKTI HAI???
We can't get hurt everytime they choose themselves over us...because they never chose us,we chose them and yahi sach hai.
Sidharth ne kabhi nahi kahan k main ram hun,aur main kabhi kisi stree ko sparsh nahi karunga.
Tum logon ne apne dimag mein banaya tha ek image,toot gya toh dukh ho raha hai and i respect that.But he isn't to blame for that.
Ye yaad rakhna jise bb mein dekh rahe ho he is a former winner,task champion, show stealer shukla...wo show ko top pe lane k liye sb kuch karega.
He is built like that hamesha se.
Sana is not like him and it is wrong to compare both of them...dono ki apni alag personality hai.
Wo tumhare sidnaaz wala sidharth nahi hai toh kya wo sidharth nahi hai???
Ask yourself this.
Tasks nail karta tha phle bhi abhi bhi wahi kar raha hai.Jab tasks hi 2rs wale hain toh wo kya kare?
Han ek point tha k agar sana msk mein itna firm reh skti hai toh sidharth itna loose kaise behave kar raha hai.
Phli baat no comparison.
Msk nahi chal paya kyuki sana ne bol diya tha k mera dil yahan baithe kisi ldke ke sath nahi hai.The show tanked.
There were people at that time who said
"I am a shipper lekin i won't watch msk...because sana sirf sidharth ke sath achi lgti hai..jab ke ldki ne live me aa aa ke bola tha k trust me aisa kuch ni karungi....plz mere pe yakeen karo"
Agar tum mein se kisi ne bhi ye bb14 dekha hai after the promos and things you saw i mean wo log jinhone msk ni dekha tha toh tumse bda hypocrite koi ni hai.
Promo aajata hai toh dikh jata hai na k kya hoga?Why do you watch then?
To criticize?
Do you know how self harming is that?
Giving your time to something that brings you no peace no productivity.
Msk fail hua tha because the concept was trash and sana didn't want anything to do with it.
BB14 mein sidharth ko bulaya hi isliye hai..hype toh aise hi create hoti hai...tumhare drame mein saara maza wahi le raha hai jisne phle liya tha.
FUCKING SHOW TRP!!!!
You think they care about your cute little hearts???
The more you and solos talk about it the more they benefit.
ANY PUBLICITY IS GOOD PUBLICITY FOR THEM.
Stop giving them the satisfaction.
That is how you deal with things...you ignore them.
Msk nahi dekhte they taki bnd ho jaye toh bb14 kaise dekh rahe ho???
Ye btao chalo.
Kya explanation hai?
Sidharth ke liye?
Toh fir msk sana k liye kyun ni dekha???
Maine msk bhi dekha tha,main bb14 bhi dekh ri hun...thi mtlb.
Ab ni dekhoongi, mere personal reasons hain.
SUPPORT CONDITIONAL NAHI HOTI.
Solo ho toh discussion mein part hi mat lo,shipper ho to choose karna bnd karo.
Yahi hai Bigg Boss...iska concept is based on mental degradation and pressure.
Last season kyun hit hua tha?
Was it all because of the good things and entertainment???
Its a business!!!!!
Tumne kuch nahi seekha na us sb se?Itne mahine k pain se?
So to sum that point up...sidharth doing anything in bb14 however degrading you find it is nothing but his ever committed self and as he never said he is in a relationship or even that he loves someone outside,he can't be judged for his behaviour.
Hume rona ka haq hai,naraz hone ka bhi..kyunki humne apna bahut waqt diya hai inhe,lekin isme inka kya dosh hai.
Ye toh dost hi bolte hai ek dusre ko.
Isi aadmi ko abhi tak tumne sana ke sath ship kiya hai na....agar bb13 mein wo tumko sahi lgta tha toh abhi bhi lgna chahiye warna uske words mein
"Off ho tum"
Kyunki wo waisa hi hai jaisa tha,phle aise task nahi they toh nahi kar raha tha....ab wo bhi toh change hoga na wQt ke sath,insan hi toh hai...jo mil raha hai wo kar raha hai.
If you don't like that that is upto you par is basis pe tum conclusion nahi nikaal skte.
2).Sana ne sid of unfollow kar diya.
Oh ho ho.. bda hi naya hai Ye kya hogya???
Abhi toh tumhe pta bhi nahi hai k kya reason hai...kyun sherlock bn rahe ho?
Jab ldka 14 din baad aayega aur fir bhi follow back nahi hua.Tab ro lena..abhi kyun????
Maan lo sana ne agar gusse mein aake promo k chalte unfollow kar bhi diya hai,toh isse kya proof hua?
Sidharth toh yahan hai hi nahi na ,fir?
Koi apni narazgi gaa k dikhata hai,koi ro k wo aise dikha ri hai.
Apni life pe uska itna bhi right ni hai kya?
Jeene do yaar,kisi ka tag ni use karti toh akdu.
Kisi ko follow karti hai toh characterless, kisi aur unfollow karti hai toh attention seeker.
Sana wo karti hai jo sana ka dil karta hai.
Usse assumptions lgane chod do.
Tumhe lgta hoga tum un dono ko jante ho lekin unse behatar toh nahi jante na???
She unfollowed him and she will follow him back and then you will have your moment to gloat.
Tab tak sabar...is layak toh rakho sana ko k kisi social account pe bina negativity ke jaa ske.
There was this thing,k she is a celebrity toh usko in chezon ka dhyan rakhna chahie.
She is celebrity because she is not like a celebrity!!!!
Log usko pyar karte hain kyunki wo ye sb vyapar nahi jaanti.
Sbka apna apna system hota hai,uska hamesha se yahi hai.
You can't expect someone to change themselves for your sake.
Jab aisa kuch karti hai na...toh usko sidharth sidharth bolna bnd karo.
Celebrate her ,give her more compliments.
Tum sidharth ko udr dekh k dukhi ho,toh usne toh show bnd kra diya tha bolke k i love sidharth...uska socha hai?
Tumhare comments pdhti hogi toh kya feel hota hoga?
Kisi ko console karna ho toh same topic share karte hain ya different????
Make her happy instead of sympathizing and using bechari word for her because according to you
"She wasted her time on him"
And some sidhearts being like
"She does this for attention"!!!
We don't know the real reason and ek bat bolun,sb log apne aap ko celebrity smj ke ekdum mature nahi ho jate.
Uski growth dekhi hai kitni zyada hui hai....toh kya hua agar thoda bachapana hai?
Tum log toh yar insan ko feel karne k liye bhi guilty feel kra rahe ho..saying k she should know this is serious and issue hote hain.
May be she doesn't want that,kabhi ye bhi socho.Muje agar kal ko tum celebrity bna do vote deke toh main mature ho jaungi?
Maine pyar manga tha,ye rules toh tumne diye hain...mujhe toh nahi chhaiye they par seekh rahi hun na..koshish kar rahi hun.
Waqt lgta hai yar...kuch aadaten kabhi nahi jaati.Toh insan bura hogya???
Zara soch k btana...conditional kiska pyar hai tumhara ya solos ka????
3).Ye toh bahut khatarnak topic hai...solos vs shippers.
Suno meri baat ..phle ye bta deti hun k shippers ki kya glti hai aur most of the reasonable solos tumse annoy kyun hote hain.
Bura lagega par sacchai hai.
Overhyping!!!
My babies....solos can suck it nothing beats this bond.
Toh jab koi solo ye pdhta hai toh wo toh wait karega hi na tumhe bura bhala kehne ka.
Twitter negative kyun hai?
Because you are taking turns with the haters.
They gloat when you feel bad,you gloat when they feel bad.Kab khtm hoga????
Hai koi end iska?
Stop replying to people jinka entertainment tumhara pain hai.
I have a picture to answer this point for you.Wait.
You are all trying to prove something beyond your forces my lovlies.
DO HI LOG HAIN JO SOLOS YA TUMHARI WIN CONFIRM KAR SKTE HAIN...SID AND SANA.
The day they say
"We are getting married or are in love or announce the official thing...shippers will win and the day they announce their love for someone else solos will win this argument"
Tab tak dono hi fakeer ho,jitne pagal tum sabit hote ho SNIT karke..tumhe insult karke wo bhi utne hi gadhe sabit ho rahe hain.
Kal jab wo fir kuch acha karenge solos will be on the other end and you will have a laugh lekin dono hi cases mein...don't think one is better than the other.
The more you try to prove they are together, the more they celebrate them being apart.
Ye negativity aa humse hi rahi hai.
Ek bar is cheez ko paraphrase alag tareeke se karo.
Say
"I don't care what the truth is,i love them together and that is why i ship them..it makes my heart happy. I like the idea of them being together and this is what i am praying for...instead of,I know they are together..hence proved...matching parde,matching darwaze....Solos can suck it...what we saw was right.
That is equally wrong.
Wo sochte hain k saala...hume andha kehte hain jab hum romance ni dikhta sidnaaz ka....aur kehte hain...actions speak louder than words.
Lekin jab isi philosophy pe hum kehte hain k...see his actions or her actions....they don't love each other toh fir bhi hum hi pagal????
Ye rule toh tumhi logon ne nikala na???
Stop doing this as shippers,stop overhyping and being delusional.
See things for what they are.
Is sidharth dancing with another woman?
Yes!!!!
Wo kya kar skta tha kyun sochna,jo kar raha hai dikh raha hai na.
Isse aap hurt hue toh acknowledge that...usko process karo.
Don't feel bad for sana,usko uparwale ne bahut kuch diya hai,she will be fine.
If you feel bad don't watch the show,tumhari mental peace se zyada zaruri toh nahi hai na?
So ye solos aur shippers ka problem ye hai,that they aren't seeing who is shaking the jar.
AAPKE EMOTIONS KA KOI BUSINESS KAR RAHA HAI!
Red ants and black ants are fighting and killing each other while all of them have a common goal.
Loving two people and helping their dreams.
Toh ye kabhi nahi rukega jab tak ek side jeet nahi jati and i told you how they will win eventually.
At last,someone said
"They want some type of direction to go to because mixed signals and lack of verbal announcements is very painful for them"
Answer-Aag mein hath doge toh jalan toh hogi hi.Ship aise do logon ko kar rahe ho jinhone kabhi bola hi nahi k we are dating. Tumhare building ka base hi assumption hai...toh conformation kaise milega???
Again i am not saying what we felt and saw was wrong but proof toh hume kabhi nahi mila na k they are dating.
I am talking about facts here...toh ye proof bhi nahi milega k they are not dating.
Simple sa funda hai....
Agar in dono ko ship karna hai toh isi pain,problem,discussion or allegation ke sath karna pdega kyunki ye sari duniya tumne khud bnai hai.
Jo unhone kaha hai wo sach hai,baki jo bhi tumne socha wo sach aur galat dono ho skta hai...isliye behatar hai.
STAY IN REALITY INSTEAD OF DREAMS!!!
IF SOMETHING DOESN'T BRING YOU PEACE,MONEY OR ORGASM,ITS NOT WORTH YOUR TIME😉
Jo dikhta hai wo hota nahi.
Believe in something only if it comes out of their mouth....tv show mein nahi real life mein.
Prepare for the worst,you will enjoy the best!!!
I hope it helped.
I know we all want a security that what we are shipping is real but real has many meanings.
What you feel is real,what you connected to is real and if that doesn't give you happiness no more,its time to move on and find something else to be happy.
Apni happiness se zyada kisi cheez ko prioritize mat karna.
God bless you!!!