Teenage Advice

Bailey vs. Kat

Hi. So I really like this guy and I keep hinting that I do, but he either doesn't like me back or is a huge idiot and doesn't notice. Anyways, other than that, he is sending me mixed signal. Like, we will be texting and he will be all flirty and stuff but then he will flirt with a mutual friend,Kat, and she tells me about it. Also, I am ALWAYS the one to start the conversation, and sometimes he just flat out ignores me. I asked Kat what I should do and she said "dont text him, make him start the convo." But im not sure if I should because she acts like she likes him. (And is way more forward and outgoing, therefore they are closer then me and him are and she has known him for not even half as long as I have) so I dont know what to do. Please help :(

-Bailey

Dear Bailey,

If you think this guy....let's call him Tyler, if you think Tyler and Kay are close then you need to start becoming closer to him.

Don't over do it on the flirting, boys don't really like it when girls:

•act dumb

•are pushy

•are attention seekers

•brag

•throw themselves at guys

•have no self respect

•act needy

•act desperate

If I were you I wouldn't text him first every sine time, but it's okay to text first sone times. Text him like you're texting one of your best friends, don't send longgggggggggggggg messages and don't act you have a crush on him.

Try to talk about him and things he likes (hobbies,sports,video games,music,etc.)

DO NOT TALK ABOUT KAT

NOT TALKING ABOUT KAT=😊👍

TALK OF KAT IS PROHIBITED

ABOUT KAT WE DO NOT TALK

KAT SHALL NOT BE NAMED

😺=🙊

Just so we're clear.

Don't talk about Kat if there's a possibility that Tyler likes her the it may not be vest to mention her because then he may start thinking about her.

Try to hang out with him and watch sports or play video games, which ever he's into.

(Don't talk about Kat)

Always be truthful to him because if you lie then you start digging a hole, and in the end you can't crawl out of it and you get stuck and the only way out is the ladder of truth (<cheesy yet true)

Hope this all works! Best of luck to ya!

-Abigail✌️👲

Don't talk about

Kat😼