Conversation starters: face to face
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So, here's how to physically talk to your lovely crush.
•Wait for the perfect time and place to talk
You don't want to be at his locker perhaps, with only 3 minutes to talk without being late for class and crap happens. No—you need to plan it.
Make a back up plan too.
You never know.
•Act like you've known him for a while now-like done be so awkward.
Stay alert of your tone and hand gestures that you do and your expressions. Ha, you don't wanna scare him away with a crazy look on your face, am I right?
•Take interest with the things he might be interested in talking about.
Maybe he doesn't just want to talk about your 5 different pets
Talk about interesting stuff
Or just be yourself and maybe be awkward but the type of funny awkward
•Freshen your breath before you meet up/talk to him.
No one not even him, wants to smell your nasty morning breath. cx. He also doesn't want to smell what you had for breakfast so honey, go to Walmart or some place, buy yourself a pack of gum, (perhaps sugar free so you can be smelling good and have good teeth health) and chew that crap up and rock it. Having fresh breath can also boost your confidence and make things less award. Don't eat any gross smelling stuff for breakfast or lunch, like onions and garlic, other things too. After lunch or breakfast (well after brushing your teeth) pop in a piece of gum 5 minutes after and/or before you meet up with your crush. If you're going to a dance and will meet him there, you're going to be close up and personal so maybe gargle with mouth wash or eat a piece of gum also
•when you first start out the convo, you can also make it funny or playful, like talk about the place you guys are at maybe
•Ask his opinion on something that is easy to talk about. Like maybe, "do you prefer vanilla or chocolate ice cream?" Or for those band fans, "which do you think is better, Blood on the Dance Floor or Black Veil Brides?" 🤗
•Ask something unusual but easy to answer.
It'll spice things up a bit, y'know?
For example: "is there a celebrity that people say, or you think, that you look like?"
Maybe that or something different—be creative.
•Be an active listener.
Don't yawn, don't look anywhere else, don't slouch, don't look bored. Stare at his eyes, (not like a creep okay?), have your shoulders/body facing him, and be smiling I guess? Just look like you're enjoying the convo, if it's boring. You got this girl friend.
•Make a plan to hang out again.
Again, get his number.
You can do it.
•end the convo on a good note.
Maybe use a pick up line, I would have an example but I can't think of any.. Maybe "see you later alligator" XD. I dunno, that seems pretty lame
But maybe say "have a good day" or "see ya around"
Something happy/good natured.
Is that right? "Good natured?" Tf.. I don't even know.
Anyway, hope this helped guys.
Just be yourself, if you're awkward, then be awkward. But only if you're like a funny awkward person, i dont know how to explain that.
You can do this girl, I believe in you. *makes a heart shape with my fingers*
