Note-: If you all have any problem with the "Typical Hindi" words.... Please free ask me anytime!😍😅....
Then came The most important and special moment of the whole ceremony....
"Sampradaan"....( Or as it said in Hindu weddings..... Kanyadaan)..... When Bondita's Parents would officially hand over their beloved piece of heart to someone else....forever....
Bondita's Maa and Baba came and sat in the Mandap....Their eyes were moist.... Bondita just kept looking at them.... She could feel their pain... Just by looking at their eyes...."How Difficult it would be for them to part with me.... How would I ever live without them.... How would I be able to wake up without Maa's hug and go to sleep without giving my Baba a good night Hug....", she thought to herself and her eyes welled up with tears....
Baba took Bondita's right hand and kept it on Anirudh's Hand....Maa tied their hands with a sacred thread...
And Baba said," Main aaj apni pyaari si Beti Bondita ko....Shrimaan Anirudh Roy Chowdhary ko daan mein deta hu... "
And now his eyes also welled up with tears.... But he controlled himself as it would have saddened his Bondita...
Then Both did The "Yagna"...... Prayed to the Fire God.... And invited God to be the witness of their Wedding!!!🙏🙏
The came the "Saptapadi" (Saat phere).....
Pari did their Gathbandhan😍...their souls were tied together....
They Both took the Mangal Pheras and said the Sacred Saat Vachan!❤️....(seven promises each😊😍)....
1st Vow....
तीर्थव्रतोद्यापन यज्ञकर्म मया सहैव प्रियवयं कुर्या:
Bondita -: Aap yadi kisi teerth yatra par jaayein....ya koi bhi Dharm sambandhi kaarya karenge... Toh mujhe apne saath avashya le jaayein.... Aur har Upvaas, Yagya.... Aur Pooja mein mere saath ko zaruri samjhenge.... Yadi aapko yeh Sweekar hai toh main aapke Vaam bhaag (left side) mein aane ke liye taiyyar hu😊...
Anirudh-: Main vachan deta hu ki aaj se koi bhi pooja ya dhaarmik kaam tumhaare bina nahi karunga!...😊
2nd Vow...
पुज्यो यथा स्वौ पितरौ ममापि तथेशभक्तो निजकर्म कुर्या:
वामांगमायामि तदा त्वदीयं ब्रवीति कन्या वचनं द्वितीयम!!
Bondita-: Main aapko Vachan deti hu ki aapke Pariwaar ko apna pariwaar samjhungi.... Aur aapse bhi yahi Vachan maangti hu ki aap mere Mata Pita aur Pariwaar ko apna Maan kar pura sammaan aur prem denge.... Aur Pariwaar aur kul ki maryada ki Raksha ke Liye humesha hum Saath Mein prayaas karenge...
Anirudh:- Main Vachan deta hu!😊.... Aaj se humaare pariwaar ek hain.... Aur humaare liye ek samaan hain....aur tumhaare Pariwaar ki izzat aaj se meri zimmedaari hai....😊
3rd Vow...
जीवनम अवस्थात्रये पालनां कुर्यात
वामांगंयामितदा त्वदीयं ब्रवीति कन्या वचनं तृतीयं!!
Bondita-: Main is Pavitra agni ko saakshi maankar aapko Vachan deti hu ki jeevan ke har pal... Har avasthaa mein aapke saath rahungi... Aur aapse prem karti rahungi....
Anirudh-: Main bhi yeh Vachan deta hu ki Jeevan Bhar tumhaare saath rehkar tumhaara khayal rakhunga... Aur tumhaari saari Zimmedariyan jeevan bhar Nibhaaunga😊....
4th Vow....
कुटुम्बसंपालनसर्वकार्य कर्तु प्रतिज्ञां यदि कातं कुर्या:
वामांगमायामि तदा त्वदीयं ब्रवीति कन्या वचनं चतुर्थ:।।
Bondita:- Aaj tak hum pariwaar ki har zimmedariyon se mukt the.... Par ab jab hum ek naya jeevan shuru karne jaa rahe hain... Main aapko vachan deti hu ki Pariwaar ki har zimmedaari uthaaungi...Aur aapse yeh Vachan chaahti hu ki aap pariwaar ke paalan poshan aur zaruraton ka dhyaan rakhenge....tabhi main aapke Vaam aang mein aana sweekaar karungi...
Anirudh:- Main Vachan deta hu ki Pariwaar ki Har zarurat ka humesha dhyaan rakhunga... Aur sab kuch pradaan karne ki koshish karunga....
5th Vow...
स्वसद्यकार्ये व्यहारकर्मण्ये व्यये मामापि मन्त्रयेथा
वामांगमायामि तदा त्वदीयं ब्रूते वच: पंचमत्र कन्या!!
Bondita-: Main sada har paristhiti mein aapki sahayta karungi.... Toh aaj main aapse yeh vachan chaahti hu... Ki jeevan mein agar zarurat pade.... Toh aap Tan man aur dhan se mujhe apni sahayta jarne se nahi rokenge.... Aap meri dhan sambandhi sahayta lene mein sankoch nahi karenge... Yadi yeh aapko sweekar hai toh main aapke vaamaang mein aane ke liye taiyyar hu....😊
Anirudh:- Main Vachan deta hu... Ki kabhi bhi tumhaari dhan sambandhi sahayta se nirbal mehsoos nahi karunga.... Aur tumhe kabhi bhi Grihasti mein haath bataane se nahi rokunga....aur tumhe samaanta ke saare adhikaar dunga...😊
6th Vow....
न मेपमानमं सविधे सखीना द्यूतं न वा दुर्व्यसनं भंजश्वेत
वामाम्गमायामि तदा त्वदीयं ब्रवीति कन्या वचनं च षष्ठम!!
Bondita-: Yadi aap mere Maan Sammaan ka pura dhyaan rakhne.... Aur jeevan mein kisi bhi prakaar ki buri aadaton... Ya apnaanit kaaryon se door rehne ka vachan dete hain toh main aapke vaamaang mein aana swikaar karti hu
Anirudh-: Main vachan deta hu... Ki kabhi bhi tumhe tumhaare pariwaar aur dosto se milne se nahi rokunga... Aur main jeevan bhar kisi bhi buri aadat se door rehne ka vachan deta hu...😊
7th Vowsapt
परस्त्रियं मातृसमां समीक्ष्य स्नेहं सदा चेन्मयि कान्त कुर्या,
वामांगमायामि तदा त्वदीयं ब्रूते वच: सप्तममत्र कन्या !!
Anirudh-: Aaj se tum mere liye sabse zaruri ho... Aur tumhaare alawa har stree mere liye parayi hogi.... Aur unhe Mata ya behen ki drishti se dekhne ka main vachan deta hun...😊
Bondita-: Main aapke alawa kisi anya purush ko paraya maanne ka vachan deti hu.... Aur ek Pati vrata patni ki tarah jeevan bhar aap hi ko samarpit rahungi...😊
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Pandit ji - Isi ke saath saptpadi ke Saat Vachano ki vidhi puri hui😊...
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Then anirudh and Bondita perform "Kusumdinge"....
They both offered puffed rice in the Yagna kund...Bondita held the Rice and And Anirudh Held her hands😍...
Lastly it was "Sindoor Daan"😍...
Anirudh Took Sindoor in a coin and filled Bondita's Maang❤️A bit of Sindoor fell on Bondita's Nose.. And it meant that Anirudh would live her immensely for the whole life ahead!😍❤️🙈....
Bondita was overwhelmed.... She was really happy.... Sindoor was now added to her Sringaar.... She prayed to God.... To bless her that she May carry this Sindoor in her Maand till her Last breath😍😊....
And hence The Vivaah Was Completed!❤️😍....
Anirudh And Bondita were tied together forever and ever...
Soon the Most emotional moment came... Bidaai!...❤️
Everyone got really Emotional Bondita cried her heart out....❤️😭
Anirudh was also touched.... But to lighten everyone's mood he said....
Anirudh:- Aray Kaka yeh Dulhan toh Bahut ro rahi hai.... Ise Maa aur Baba ke paas hi chod dete hain😅.... Thik hai na Bondita?!😅...😂😂
Bobdita-: (laughing)...Ji nahi!!!😏😡.... Ab aap iss Dulhan se peechha nahi chuda paayege!!!😂😂🙈🙈
They all sat in the cars.. Anirudh and Bondita sat in one car... With the driver.... And Others followed them in other car....
In the Car....
Anirudh Held Bondita's Hand... And she became really shy🙈🙈....
But soon she kept her head on his shoulder😍....
They Both did not talk... But the feelings were deep!😍❤️....They were just happy in each other's company....❤️😍
On reaching Home Kaka did their Grah Pravesh....😍
Bondita cane inside with kumkum feet😍....
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They all Did a small puja in front of Dugga Maa....❤️🙏
Kaka-: Chalo... Ab baaki saari rasme kal subah karni hain....ab sab log aaraam kar lo... Kal jaldi uthna hai...
Aur Bondita... Beta kal subah tumaari pehli rasoi hai.... Toh dhyaan se subah jaldi uth jana!😊... Jaao ab jaakar aaraam karo!😊...
Anirudh-: Haan Chalo Bondita😊.... Humaara Kamra Upar hai!😊...
Bondita-: Ji...😊
Kaka-: Aray O Bilaayati Babuuu!!!.... Kahaan chal diye Matak ke😅....itne kitaabe padhi... Agar thode granth bhi padh liye hote.... Toh pata hota ki aaj "Kaal Raatri" hai!🙄
Aaj Bahu aur Tum ek kamre mein nahi reh sakte.... Rehna toh kya.... Dekh bhi nahi sakte!!!....
Anirudh-: Kyaaaa!!!😲😲...
Kaka-: Hmmmm???!!!!😡😠👿
Anirudh:-.. M.. M.. Mera matlab.... Kyaaahhhaa!!!😅😅😅... Aapne... pehle toh....nahi bataya aisa...😅😅😒
Kaka.... Toh ab Bata rahe hain naa😡😠😠koi aapatti hai kya?!🤨🤨🙄🙄😤
Anirudh -: Nahi nahi kya aapatti ho sakti hai😅😅... Aapatti kuch bhi nahi hai😅... Jao... Bondita.... Tum Guest room mein so jaao...😏😏
Kaka-: kyon bhai... Bondita kyun jaayegi Mehmaano waale Kamre mein?!🙄🙄... Tum Jaaooo....😏😏🙄🙄
Anirudh-: Maaiiinnnn!!!????
Kaka-: Kyon koi pareshaani hai.... Toh ek kaam karo aaj chhat pe so jaao.... Macchharo ke saath apni shaafi ka jashn mana lena wahan😒😏
Anirudh-:Nahi nahi... Thik hai main jaa raha hun Guest room mein😏😏😞😞
Bondita giggled a bit😄😅😃
And then they all went to sleep....
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That's all for today!💖.... Hpoe you all like it.... I wanted to talk about each ritual in deatail so it took a bit more time.... And pls tell me if you want it in this way or more precise?!😅😊...
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