Arranged By Fate

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Rashi's pov :

" First of all ,
YOU start taking your marriage seriously .
He is your husband and you two reside in the same house with no words ,
as if strangers "

" Cherish the fact that YOU are his WIFE "
" Cherish the truth that your going to be a mother soon "

" But Rashi Navneet is not accepting me as his wife . How can I act like that when he is just running from me every second "

" Number 1 , DON'T act anything , as acting is temporary , thus marriage , your marriage with him is not temporary , right . So start valuing it , no matter what , let him do whatever he wants , if YOU accept it honestly that he is your husband , and you have responsibilities towards him , trust me one day definitely he will come back to you "

" He is not becoming ROMEO
because YOU didn't became JULIET yet "

" How should I became Juliet " ?
" I really want him to be like ROMEO "
" Dancing around me every time ,
loving me, caring for me and much more"

" I can understand , but never ever you have to say all these to him , that I want this , I want that ...etc "

" Be confident , believe in yourself , have faith in God , show him that you are happy always , even if sometimes you are feeling miserable "

" Do all your responsibilities as a wife ,
in whatever manner he react "

" Don't complain for anything "
" Show him that you are honest , trustworthy , will always be there for him as a support , no matter what . Show him that you have had accepted him, this marriage and this baby whole heartedly . And you don't want to be with him for any selfish reason . Do all his work yourself , so that he start depending upon you for his everything"

"Wait , he didn't even let me
enter his room " ?

" You are his wife , be strong for your rights , keep his clothes yourself , check them washed , ironed , etc.."
" Keep a check , when he comes late , when & where he goes , early , if his official work is good or some problem , how's his day "
" Surprise him on his birthday by cooking something yourself . As the famous saying ,

" way to a man's heart goes from his tummy "

"Ohhh , that's why you are always in kitchen even when Ramu kaka and mom is there to take care off " ?

" Partly yes , I do take care of Kabir's likes , dislikes and aslo what's healthy for him , etc..."

" But also , make sure never never make any first move for physical things , make him wait , let him invest in you , in every possible way , whether it's for your time or yourself or infact baby "

" If in case situations got a bit aggressive take support of your baby , he has a soft corner for him , I myself has seen many times him asking Ramu kaka , mom about your medicines , appointment & stuff "

" Don't let any member of family to help you with pregnancy and it's effect , in this matter talk directly to him if it's something serious or else show him that you need his help , for example in picking something or act as if your legs are paining etc.... fake a bit for his care , but don't ask "

" But be sure to not have him any of his rights on you as a husband , don't allow him to touch even your nail , let him work for it first "

" Make him work to even get a glimpse of your baby bump , be in your room for the time you know he will be free , just ask about his day and all for once he gets back home , then stay in your room , let him come to your room to know about your health and baby "