Real Love | FIQH OF LOVE

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Asalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabrakatuh, these points are taken from the book:
'Fiqh of Love: Marriage in Islam by Shaikh Yasir Birjas'.
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لما سأل عمرو بن العاص رضي االله عنه رسول االله صلى االله عليه وسلم عن أحب الناس إليه قال: "عائشة." قال: من
الرجال؟ قال: "أبوها."

When Amr ibn-ul Aas radi allahu anhu asked the Messenger of Allah salla Allahu alayhi wa sallam who the most beloved person was for him, He answered: "Aisha." He then said: "From men?" He replied: "Her father."

قال الزهري: "أول حب كان في الإسلام حب النبي صلى االله عليه وسلم عائشة رضي االله عنها، وكان مسروق يسميها حبيبة رسول االله صلى االله عليه وسلم"
روى ذلك الإمام ابن القيم
Imam Az-zuhri said:
"The first love story ever known in the history of Islam was the love of Rasulullah salla Allahu alayhi wa sallam for Aisha, and Masrouq used to call her The love of Rasulullah salla Allahu alayhi wa sallam."

The most rehearsed love story in history:
1.The first love story ever know in the history of Islam was the love of Prophet SAS for Ayesha and Masrooq used to call her The Love of Prophet.
2. From the story of Romeo and Juliet.
They never got married and they were not put the test of life - marriage. (A/N: Even though their love was real they never got married and lived together to test their love for each other)
3. Infidelity in the western family life.

Why love stories don't last forever?:
-People take wrong examples for marriage like celebrities, where marriages don't last long
-The pre-marriage relationship - they consume their emotions, passions, love and when they start plan to marry they break and marry some place else
-Friend marriage - usually happens on the campuses - (zina)
-Divorce rates are getting high - either Denmark or Sweden, US, and Turkey because of Lack of knowledge - we just get married by the tradition, obligation, rights
of marriages etc.
-Feminist and independence - women are getting more independent and
responsible. This would mean that men will loose the authority of the
home.

The real love story:
The love between Khadija RadhiyaAllahu'anha and Muhammad SalaAllahu 'alayhi wasalam and Muhammad SalaAllahu 'alayhi wasalam and Aisha RadhiyaAllahu'anha.

Who was the most beloved wife?
Invalid question because they lived in different times so can't compare. Khadijah was the best for her time...
Aisha was the best for her time...

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