Is Your Man Really Your Man🤦🏾‍♀️

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So, like I've seen this all over social media and in books as well and I thought it was the right way to go when you were in a relationship. Fast forward years later, I realised that it was dumb, stupid and a flipping waste of your energy.

I'm sorry yeah, but you're in the relationship with the boy that swear he loves you, that swear he'll always be there for you, just for him to fuck and suck some other girl behind your back, but you decide to put all your anger out on the other girl...

I'm sorry yeah, but you're in the relationship with the boy that swear he loves you, that swear he'll always be there for you, just for him to fuck and suck some other girl behind your back, but you decide to put all your anger out on the other girl

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Do you know how fucking stupid you girls look? Putting all your anger out on the other girl that didn't even know who you were instead of the man that you're in the relationship with.

Suppose the girl didn't know your "Man" was in a relationship with you? Like even if the other girl knew y'all were in a relationship and didn't give two shits and still sucked and fucked your man, that doesn't give you the right to beat the girl up. Your loyalties are with the man, isn't it? Not the other girl.

The other girl didn't make promises to be by your side, the other girl didn't tell you that she loved you everyday, the other girl didn't compliment how beautiful you were to her every time- NO, NO SHE FUCKING DIDN'T! IT WAS YOUR- AND LET ME REPEAT, YOUR MAN THAT WAS SUPPOSED TO TAKE HIS ROLE IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND CONTRIBUTE TO THOSE ACTIONS!

And I hate to say it, I hope I don't sound ridiculous, but it's you same black girls that be thinking y'all the shit but your man has ran through how many girl's behind your back again????

And I hate to say it, I hope I don't sound ridiculous, but it's you same black girls that be thinking y'all the shit but your man has ran through how many girl's behind your back again????

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I know all different girls, no matter their skin tone turn fool for that one no good nigga, but most of the time it's black girls and we need to do better. We better than that, we're supposed to be Queens, not embarrassing ourselves to force men to love us when we know good and damn well that he don't want you.

As black girls, we've already got a lot of backlash and hate for no fucking reason and we need to try our fucking hardest to steer away from those negative stereotypes.

At the end of the day, what is you beating up the other girl going to get you? You're still going to end up with his trifling ass and you're going to allow him to cheat on you because you let him get away with it. You'll fight the girl and forgive your man with a click of the fingers, it's not right and you gotta do better.






So I hope you enjoyed my little rant😊.

This has been a topic of discussion that I've had with my friends and they both agreed how embarrassing it was for the girl to beat up the other girl when that energy hasn't been reciprocated for her man. It really has to stop because at the end of the day, you're not achieving anything by acting ratchet for a no good ass nigga. I don't even know why us girls turn fool for a clown ass dude but when a good man introduces himself, we are reserved as fuck- I'll never understand why that happens.

If you have any pet peeves that pisses you off, comment down below and I might rant about it.

Until next time....

~ Mylittlethingx

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