Addicted

14• rumor has it

1) Compulsively cheating on a partner or spouse.

2) Engaging in multiple extramarital affairs that have almost nothing to do with intimacy.

3) Masturbating excessively and/or obsessively.

4) Getting involved in unsafe sexual encounters despite knowing they're risky.

5) Compulsively engaging in phone sex.

6) Making a habit of having anonymous sexual partners.

7) Engaging in sexual behaviors that interfere with other obligations like work, family life, and school.

8) Getting irritable, anxious, or angry without frequent sex.

9) Spending an inordinate amount of time planning (often deviant) sex fantasies.

10) Feeling a great deal of guilt and remorse after engaging in sexual behaviors.

11) Engaging in unhealthy or compulsive sexual behavior despite knowing the risks of physical harm to self or others involved.

12) Repeatedly trying to curb the sexual fantasies, urges, and behaviors without being able to.

13) Habitually having one-night stands.

14) Knowingly compromising personal relationships (including marriages) in order to fulfill sexual fantasies and urges.

15) Performing sex acts that tend to be precipitated by a depressed mood.

16) Engaging in exhibitionism (a desire to expose parts of the body), in public.

17) Getting pleasure out of voyeurism and frequently engaging in it.

18) Often people that are severely confused regarding their sexual preferences tend to engage in impulsive sexual behavior

19) The person who is a sex addict has no control over his/her thought about pornographic acts, sexual thought floods and disrupts the mind of the person, and they probably suffer from internal struggle since they are not able to understand the reason of the thought and why can't they stop them.

"What the hell is this?" I laughed, looking over at Alyssa, "you think I'm a sex addict? Seriously?"

"You are a sex addict, Desiree. All of these things are you", she responded.

I waved her off, "why are you showing me this? You think I need help?"

She laughed, shaking her head, "Desiree, you are a grown woman. If you are happy with your ways, then what can I say?"

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"Alright, Mrs. Desiree McClain.. Rumor has it that you are loving the ladies", Angie laughs.   

I laughed as well, playfully rolling my eyes, "like you said, rumor. Angie, I am happily married. What happened in Brazil was a result of a little too much liquor. Besides, it was just a few body shots and kisses. We all get caught up in the turn up sometimes, right?"

She laughed, "agreed! It's also being said that your manager is an open lesbian."

"That she is. I don't discriminate. In fact I support the lgbt community. Was I not supposed to hire her due to her sexual her preference? Because I did hire her, I have to be sleeping with her or undercover?"

"I see where you're going with this. I feel you. So right here, right now.. Go ahead and set the record straight, are you or are you not an undercover lesbian?" She asked.