Jasmine began to live her life with no Dave in it.
He always said to her,
If anybody is to leave in this friendship, it would be you.
Perhaps he could predict the future.
Whatever the case was, she had left and that was it.
Maybe Love wasn't for everybody.
She had to accept the fact that he was in love with only his crush, Kylie and nobody else.
I mean, he would die for that girl if he had his way.
Maybe all of this was karma coming back for her as she broke her ex's heart.
I know your vibe, I'm not just giving it to you.
Now she knew why he said that, so that she would want him more.
He reduced her worth to the last.
She was brought back to reality when she received a text from her British friend.
Their conversation
British:baby I'm sorry
Jasmine:for what?
British:him. . .
Jasmine: yeah. . .
He told me not to love him, because he will break my heart.
British:He's a fool.
Jasmine:Ikr
He was just being honest tho.
British:now don't talk to him like you used to, make him come after you.
Jasmine:that's what I'm trying to do, but I enjoy talking to him💔
British:Reduce it, big time!
Reply him in one word.
Girl. . . I get you but to be sincere, these guys are something else.
If you really like him and you have told him you do and he said that, make him come after you.
You have to learn how to stand alone no matter how much you love him.
I have been there.
Jasmine:How do I make him come after me?
British:reduce the chats and calls, don't let him know you're hurt.
At least you let him know you love him,
Now act like you don't care!
Get busy with something.
Do something that gets your mind off him.
Know this, people will never last forever in relationships.
He just made it clear to you.
If you keep pouring your time and emotions you would get broken even without the relationship.
He told you not to love him more Jasmine, stay clear!
Let the feelings go!
Don't push.
Don't let him know you love him anymore.
Gradually withdraw from him because bet me, this won't stop hurting till you make up your mind to let him go emotionally.
Baby you don't need all this now.
The reason why this is hurting so bad is because you're not emotionally firm for all this.
Jasmine:I know💔
So I should stop talking to him yeah?
British:Please stop, or at least don't ever text him first.
Jasmine:what if I start to miss him tho?
British:Talk to me, read a book, go online, watch a movie, listen to music, accept the fact that you do not need a guy to be happy.
The exact words Tokyo said to her.
I understand it's difficult, I have been in worse cases.
Trust me you do not want to know.
It's normal to love, but control is the key to be able to avoid pain.
You would be fine and one day, you will tell someone your story.
He knows you're an amazing person.
He doesn't love you so he wants to pin you down till he wants you
Just let him go.
Jasmine:thank you very much babe, I love you.
British:love you too dear.
God bless this girl.
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Moving on wasn't really so easy but Jasmine had to do it anyways.
Even if not for anything, for herself and for her personal growth.
They made a promise not to ever leave each other but she had to break the promise and leave before she died out of torture.
Its just so funny how someone who brought light to your life and always made you smile ended up being the reason for your constant sadness.
She went to Instagram and read quotes.
It made her more clear that Dave legit felt nothing for her.
She couldn't wait to find her true soulmate.
She hoped and prayed Dave would never come back to her and nothing would ever make her text him because then, all her efforts will be put to waste.
She had to leave his life.
They had two different personalities entirely.
They were both toxic for each other.
They could never be in a relationship.
They weren't meant for each other.
The love was one-sided.
Who was she kidding?
Dave never even saw a future with her.
Maybe her own Love story was meant to end this way.
She couldn't get the love of her life to be with her.
She went back to being sad and broken again.
The memories they had together kept on hunting her every action.
She couldn't do anything without thinking about him as they always did everything together.
The early morning meet up's, the snapchat videos and pictures, she could recall the time she composed a song for him.
The mid night calls, the constant texting, the neck kisses and cuddles,
all of this!
She had never been this close to a guy all her life.
But she had to stay far away from him.
She hated and loved him at the same time.
She was always praying for him to become someone great and all he did was to give the attention she deserved to another girl.
He didn't even care to call or text since the last time they met.
He didn't care to find out why she was avoiding him
Perhaps, he was tired of doing that.
They both brought nothing but pain to each other's lives.
She realized that the worst thing that could ever happen to a man was to fall in love with the wrong person.
She didn't even know if she should believe in a thing called true love and friendship anymore.
She knew a person could only fall in love once.
She was lucky enough to be surrounded by people who would help her forget him.
Every thing happens for a reason, maybe this wasn't meant to be.
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