Nellie's Guide to Being Little: Vol. 1

Keywords

First I'd like to start off with keywords that is involved with being a little.

BDSM:
- "The first set of letters – B&D – stands for Bondage and Discipline. If you've ever put a
blindfold on a partner, tied his or her hands with scarves, or given a spanking to someone
for being naughty, you've dabbled in B&D. Bondage is the use of restraints to enhance
sexual pleasure, and Discipline is the use of rules or punishment to control or reward
behavior in a sexual context.
-D&S, or D/s, stands for Domination and Submission (many of its devotees like to play
games with capitalization in order to put a flourish on the power relationships). It's
the most purely emotional of the three concepts. People in D/S relationships may not
have any physical interaction at all, and in some cases may never even meet. While D/
S relationships often contain aspects of both B&D and S&M when they are physical,
they can also be conducted at long distance, over the phone, instant messenger or even
by mail. Many would say that D/S is the most formal and ritualistic of the relationships,
and these tend to be the ones that lend themselves best to the long-term.
-S&M stands for Sadism and Masochism; it's the most physical of the three milieus,
although it may involve emotional torture or humiliation as well, and it's the one that
you most likely got your impression of BDSM from when you saw it parodied in a
mainstream movie. S&M is whips and chains, it's spanking, and it's bruises and welts.
It takes its name from the names of two European perverts of yore – the Marquis de
Sade and Leopold von Sacher-Masoch; both men wrote extensively about the pleasure
to be found in the giving and receiving of pain as part of sexual pleasure – sadism and
masochism respectively." (Source: http://www.whatisbdsm.com/)
CG/L:
-"Let me start at the beginning. A large section of non-vanilla sex falls within the range of BDSM (B&D (bondage and discipline) D&S (dominance and submission), S&M (sadism and masochism))
One part of BDSM is the Cg/L dynamic which stands for 'caregiver/little'." (Source:https://thecglblog.tumblr.com/cglfaqs)
- Nellie 💕✨🍼