Relationship Goals: Black Love

Differences

Friends, lovers, siblings, and people in general have differences. We have different opinions, choices, life styles, and mind sets. So it's normal that in a relationship you won't always see eye to eye.

Women and men come from different worlds and are so different, but it's funny how we seem to complete one another, or two gay men or even lesbians. Love is love. Love is so complex, but yet so beautifully place in our circle of life. In a relationship you will argue, fuss, and have disagreements. How do you work pass these obstacles? By communicating and compromising.

Compromising has a big role in relationships and is greatly needed. Having differences is challenging at times, but normal. It takes lots of patience and time to work through your differences in a relationship. Sometimes you never agree and have to agree to disagree.

Also comprise doesn't mean both parties get what they want fully. Depending on the level of differences you both are on, it can determine if you are or not meant to be together. A lot of relationships end and marriages end in divorce because they become too different or grow in different directions or apart. Having differences on the other hand can be managed and your relationship can last if you work through it.

Compromising is the key when your having differences. So many relationships don't work out because of selfishness and pride. Relationships are for the mature crowd and adults. The more focused, mature, and determined the better chances of your relationship working. Now no ones perfect and we will constantly make mistakes, but if you take the time to work and have patience it's possible for your relationship grow stronger. Differences doesn't have to get in the way of your relationship if you are accepting to the fact that you and your partner won't always agree on everything. You can't change someone, you shouldn't want to if you truly love them. If you can't come to a compromise or an agreement and it's constantly fighting and your miserable, maybe you should take into consideration the two of you may not be compatible.

Two opposites attract and sometimes they don't. It all depends on you and your partner and if you both feel like you are progressing or regressing. To be real, most women and men if they are focused on the right things when you are in disagreement, don't want to win an argument, but want each other to understand and hear where they're coming from. If you can make it work do it because in the end it will be worth it. Get through hardships now before marriage, and by the time you get to the step of marriage you will be unbreakable, nothing can tear you down and your relationship will be stronger than ever.