Insecure And Dealing With It

Building Walls

We all have been through something that changed the way we were and no matter how hard we try there's no way that takes us back to who we were back then.
It might be something very lame for others but for you it might be the most important thing and that's the reason it has changed you.
So when such incident takes place its normal to hope that it doesnt happen again.
Thats when we start building walls around us.
Walls so thick that its almost impossible to break through them.
With time the walls either break or grow thicker.
For me the walls grew thicker because there weren't many people in my life for whom I let the walls down.
Hell, there want even one to be honest.
So, when there is this one person who finally shows up and starts pulling, climbing, breaking up those thick walls its perfectly normal to feel insecure.
And that's what insecurities are, right?
Feeling that this time is going to be the same as the last one.
And its okay to feel that way.
So, next time you feel insecure just accept that you feel what you feel.
And rather than overthinking about it you can just talk to the person.
Most of the times when the person puts so much efforts in you, he/she would be glad that they get to see this side of yours because lets be honest how many times have we told our little mind to 'not get carried away' and have supressed our thoughts and feelings deep inside us.
So, next time you see your walls break and feel insecure about it, talk to someone, most preferably the person whose taking so much effort to reach out to you.