7- What if I love my bestfriend?

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ni Ejayklmnop

ni Ejayklmnop

Do you like/love your bestfriend and you don't know what to do?

Natatakot ka ba na mareject? O natatakot ka na lumayo siya sayo? Natatakot ka na baka masira ang friendship niyo?

Here is my side and I wish it can help you.

Try to tell her/him. After all, she/he is your bestfriend.

Natatakot kang mareject?

Bakit, may assurance ka na ba na marereject ka? Maybe she feels the same way pa nga diba.

Pero pano kung hindi ka niya gusto? Then accept it. Being rejected is a part of life. Yes, it would hurt. Pero mawawala din yun when you learn to accept. Being hurt is also a part of life.

Natatakot ka na lumayo siya sayo?

Why would she/he?

Depende yan kung pano ka umamin sa kanya. Kung umamin ka harshly na parang nananakot at namimilit na mahalin ka din niya, siyempre macoconfuse siya at lalayo. Kaya make sure that you will confess seriously and calmnly.

Pwede rin naman na lalayo siya panandalian. Para makapag isip. Para alamin kung ano ang dapat niyang gawin. Pero I'm sure babalik siya. Maybe she/he just need time.

Natatakot ka na baka magbago ang friendship niyo?

Of course may magbabago, if you both feel the same then you'll try to take it to the next level. And it will change a lot.

But what if wala siyang gusto sayo?

Nasa kanya ang decision kung lalayo siya o hindi.

Kung lalayo man siya, try to understand, syempre may reason yan.

But if you're going to ask me. Hindi dapat siya lumayo. Why? Kasi kung true bestfriend mo nga siya, iintindihin niya yung nararamdaman mo.

Kung hindi ka man niya gusto, she'll say it in a nice way.

For me, confessing is the best thing to do. You need a lot of confidence and determination to do it but it's for the best.

At least, whatever happens. You'll never regret it. Kasi ginusto mo at nasabi mo ang nararamdaman mo.

-Ee-jay