Wisdom Pearls of Islam

Muslim Marriage Advice

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Bismillah hirRahman nirRaheem

With The Name of ALLAH, The Beneficent and The Merciful

SallALLAHU ‘Ala Mu’hammad SallALLAHU Alayhe Wasallam

Muslim Marriage Advice

Wazifa for Muslim Matrimonial Relationships
Also Known as Rishte Ki Ha Ke Liye Wazifa

This is really a very modern age with high technology and fast services. As a Muslim sometimes it seems impossible for us to adjust in this hi-tech world. The co-education system in convent schools today is another example for Muslim girls and boys to adapt into. Wherein, many of them loves this boyfriend kinda relationship. Absolutely illegible and forbidden in Islam. Islam never allows a girl mingling with a Non-mahram male. If you refrain yourself in the limits. It never ever can harm you. Here, I am talking about the western culture.

If you look deeper into The Noble Qur’an, sink into Hadith and Sunnah. How a normal common man can live a happier normal life refraining himself from the entire leisure of the world. Let us not confuse ourselves with this . I am just coming to the point which is a pivot- ‘Love‘. Islam never says don’t fall in love’ but to ‘marry the one you love’.

ALLAH Subhanahu Wata ‘Ala has said in the Holy Quran in Chapter 5 Surah Al-Maidah Verse #5

This day are (all) things good and pure made lawful unto you. The food of the People of the Book is lawful unto you and yours is lawful unto them. (Lawful unto you in marriage) are (not only) chaste women who are believers but chaste women among the People of the Book revealed before your time when ye give them their due dowers and desire chastity, not lewdness nor secret intrigues. If anyone rejects faith fruitless is his work and in the Hereafter he will be in the ranks of those who are losers.

ALLAH Subhanahu Wata ‘Ala has said in the Holy Quran in Surah Ar-Room Verse #21

And among His (ALLAH’s) Signs is this that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them; and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts); verily in that are Signs for those who reflect.

ALLAH Subhanahu Wata ‘Ala has said in the Holy Quran Chapter 17 Surah Israa Verse #32

Do not even go near zina (fornication or adultery) for it is a very indecent thing and a very evil way!

Jaber related that the Prophet (SallALLAHU Alayhe Wasallam) said: When one of you seeks a woman in marriage let him look at whom he wishes to marry.
Related by Abu Dawood

Mughirah ibn Shu’bah narrated: I sought a woman in marriage. The Messenger of Allah (SallALLAHU Alayhe Wasallam) asked me :Have you seen her? I said : No. He (SallALLAHU Alayhe Wasallam) then said: Then look at her, because it is more proper that love should be cemented between you.
Related by Ahmed, Ibn Majah, Nasai, and Trimidhi

So we can conclude that if you love someone you should marry him/her. Love a woman only for the sake of ALLAH Ta’ala, to marry her. To live a legible idol life as a Muslim. If you are in love with any one, do not commit zinah (fornication). This is Haram. Instead rush to your parents and tell them politely about it. Let them handle this. As, they can decide best for you then what you have decided for yourself.

If you have any confusion about your marriage with any particular boy. You can perform a  Istikhara. This will Insha ALLAH help you to come to the right conclusion. Now, I am publishing one more Wazifa which is ‘yaALLAH Rishte Ki Ha Ke Liye Wazifa’. If you have got any proposal which generally is the process in any arrange marriage in Islam. Or if you love anyone and you want to marry him/her but he/she is not accepting your proposal but rejecting every time. You can perform this wazifa and Insha ALLAH your proposal will be accepted this time Insha ALLAH, Ameen.

In these two conditions you can perform this:

If you have got any marriage proposal;
If you love someone and he/she or the parents are rejecting your marriage proposal.

How to perform this Muslim Marriage Advice or ‘yaALLAH Rishte Ki Ha Ke Liye’?

Make yourself free from toilet and all for deeper concentration;
Make a fresh ablution;
Read Ya Mutakabbiru 11000 times in lonely place or room;
Perform this wazifa for 3 days only;
The fourth day you or your parents, approach the girl/boy family for proposing for marriage;
Insha ALLAH with the powerful effects of this Name of ALLAH Ta’ala, the proposal will be accepted, Ameen.

Important Note: I advice you better not to perform this during the 7 days of menses/periods. As, you might not see favorable results.