maybe it's an expectation
that people with chronic illnesses
have a kind of resigned sadness
resting within them.
and i don't know
about others
but
there is a kind of angry
hiding behind my smile.
waiting
waiting
waiting
for a split second
when i don't have
the energy
to hold it back.
and then,
i am an earthquake.
there are stages
to an earthquake.
step one: the buildup
the strain of a chronic illness
is gradual.
at the start,
it is more bearable.
annoying,
painful,
frustrating,
but bearable.
i am strong.
i will bear it.
but no one
can be perfect
forever.
the strain builds up.
step two: breaking point
everything is
at its peak pressure.
the pain has gone on
for one too many days.
life has been
put on hold
one too many times
because of a flare.
everything is
ready
to snap.
step three: the beginning
the things on the table
begin to wobble
ever so slightly,
sensing the start
of an earthquake.
my hands
begin to shake.
my breaths
get shorter.
and
then,
step four: the crescendo
my hands turn to fists
and slam down
on the table.
my breath hitches
falling into a rhythm
of desperate inhales and exhales
that never satisfy
which only makes
the cycle quicken
in a panic.
the walls shake
and all i can do
is yell
or sob
or shake silently
because no words
can capture
how wrong
everything feels
in my core.
step five: the aftermath
the earthquake
runs its course.
i cannot scream anymore.
my body is too tired
to make a fist.
i sit for a moment
just feeling.
feeling the newfound silence
feeling my hands un-tense
feeling the less talked about
calm after the storm.
and then,
i pick myself up
and carry on with my life.
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the color orange, and other things twisted by chronic illness
Poetryone person's reflection on living with fibromyalgia