"when you are in pain,you either being taken care of or you take care of others" I paused a second and said "he chose the second one , he started taking care of you" she nodded her head as she realised it. " But I didn't realise one thing, the above are the ways to run away from it but there is another angle and I am even scared to think about it" and again I paused "to bear the pain and doing nothing to control it. Let it tear you down" she looked as if she know what I am talking about, her eyes full of tears. And I said "I realised it after I met you."