Sometimes it looks love but it is poison. In this story it has been told that how elders unknowingly ignore small things of their children, which can actually have very bad consequences. Elders ignore the mistakes of youngers and encourage or laugh at first on their actions, but when the same actions becomes a bad habit after some time, then they try to improve by punishing them. Actually it was never the fault of the children, if they were stopped in the beginning, they would have learned the right things from the beginning but it becomes difficult to be right after learning the wrong first. Elders at first themselves inculcate bad habits and then speaks to improve.