A Girl's Guide

By westcurls

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To put it simply, a girl's life isn't complete without this book. WARNING: You may suffer minor mental dysfun... More

A Girl's Guide
Summertime Sadness?
Fruit Slushie
Life Hacks
ASK FOR ADVICE
Nutella Popsicles
Longer Hair
Nutella Brownies
Youtubers
Water Works
SMILE
Sharpie Tattoo?
Sticky Situations
How to: Beautiful Skin
How to: shape suited nails
How to: Whiter Teeth
DIY: Spa Day
Best Beauty Brands
DIY: Smoothies
Holiday must-reads
More Life Hacks
Dares
How To: Take A Good Selfie
Benifits of Yoga
Growing Out Hair
How To: Clean and Organise Your Room
How To: Persuade Your Parents
How To: Avoid Awkwardness
STOP SUICIDEโœ‹
Poem Treat!
How to: fade pimple/acne scars
Shaving
Niagra Falls
Tips for Healthy Hair
Studying
Wavy Hair Over-night
First Time-Makeup
How to: Keep Hairstyles Lasting Through The Day
How to: BE HAPPY
How to: BE HAPPY Part 2
Halloween
Winter Outfits
Benefits of Sleep
Christmas Gift Ideas
Author's Note
Common Misconceptions
How to: Socialise
Weight Loss Tips
What To Do On A Rainy Day/When You're Bored
How to: Keep Your Social Life Alive
Winter Beauty
What Type of Book Suits You
How to: Look After Retainers
Common Misconceptions Part 2
How to: Relieve Period Pains
READ!
How to: Keep Cool Meeting Your Idols
You are not "mature" until...
Being Sick Sucks
How to: Relieve Stress
Life Struggle
How to: GLO UP
My Social Medias
Ending the book?!
How To: Keep Eyelashes Curled
Ugh, Acne
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How to: Get Over Certain People

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By westcurls

We all have those times where we come to the realisation that we need to get over certain people like: friends that just leave,  two-faced friends, friendship rivalry and enemies.

Friends that leave you: What I mean by this is when you are really close with someone and they either leave the city they're living in or moving schools and don't even bother to remain in contact. (I'm speaking from experience here). One way or another, you have to admit to yourself that they don't care about you anymore and It's time for you to do the same. If you still cannot get them out of your mind, think about what they are doing right now, probably having fun and not even thinking about you. Tell yourself, "if it was that easy to forget about me, it should be that easy to forget about her". OR if you are that type of person who doesn't like facing reality (you need to change your ways though, it's not good) you could just tell yourself that your friendship just took seperate paths that was not meant to cross. Basically you are both better off without eachother.

Enemies: We all have that one childhood enemy that we used to hate. However, once you leave childhood and enter your teenage/older years, you must let go of the past and stop hating against eachother. It's the only other mature way to handle this hate/hate situation (if you also count ignoring eachother). Try looking back on your childhood loathing for them and maybe those memories might cause you to laugh or even have second thoughts about your hate. If your "former enemy" refuses to even up with you and at least try and recreate the friendship you never had, be the bigger and more mature person and try talking CALMLY to them and explain how silly you both were as kids etc. If THAT doesn't work try talking to their friends and have them try to persuade your enemy to change their ways. If not, sadly, you have to go to Plan B and ignore them. :O

Two-faced friends: Friends that you spill all your secrets/problems to without fear that they will spread it around, are great and obviously very trustworthy. However the real problem happens when one of your friends do exactly that: gossips and spreads without your permission. Please restrain yourself from spreading THEIR secrets and rumors around as that will push them to give out more of your personal details and even make up false stuff about you. Instead, try speaking to them in a calm and kind tone and explain what you have against them doing this and wait for a decent reply back. If their "excuse" lacks in honesty and is just really stupid, I suggest you take action and speak to a teacher or their friends about this. They may then have a quick chat to your "friend" and maybe persuade her to change her ways. However, all this two-faced friend problems mainly only happens to kids and teens. It very rarely, almost NEVER happens to adults.

Friendship rivalry: Friendship rivalry is when you are in a friendship in which you feel like you are both pretending to like eachother (as friends) however in reality you are like in a competition in almost everything. To be honest, you are just wasting your time and energy and it is pretty stupid. You just have to snap out if it and back away. Still don't get it? Here is an example of friendship rivalry:

Friend 1: "Hey! Guess what my mother just bought me? It's this little puppy and I'm gonna name it *random name*. She's soooo cute!"

Friend 2: "Oh nice. Well my mother said she's gonna buy me like four puppies so they are never alone and *starts saying random crap*. And she's gonna buy them all gold name tags to wear and it's REAL GOLD!"

Friend 1: "Well my mother said..."

You get the point:-)

I'm baaaaack! I have set myself a new target which is to update almost everyday so there's always something new and hopefully interesting for you guys to read. But I can't do this all on my own so please comment any requests and suggestions you have! THAAAANKS! Byeeeeeeeeeee Xx

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