How to Survive (LGBTQ+)

By Ourharto

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I know that a lot of my readers are in the LGBTQ+ community, like me. I wanted to get personal and share a li... More

The Beginning
Disappointment
Depression
Stereotypes
The Closet
THE FUN CHAPTER!
Clothes
Straight Girls
Nails
"You Can't Wear That..."
Anxiety
Distractions
Straight Boys
Religion
Bisexuality
Therapy
Flirting
Unwanted Attention
Tumblr Tag?
Survey pt. 2
Fear
Stress
Discrimination
Glossary
Confidence
Perfectionism
Owning it
Self Harm
Random Thoughts
Pro-Tips
Damn.
Weird Thoughts
I did a thing
Thank You
Rainbows and Unicorns
Hating Guys?
"I'm Fine."
Drowning
Focusing
Make Fun of Yourself
Nerves
I DID IT
Coming Out to My Parents
Music
Sex
Have Fun
Scars
A Demon
That's so gay.
Swearing
Quotes
Survey pt. 3
My Mind
Lying
Friends
Catcalls
Tattoos and Piercings
Good Days and Bad Days
Girls part 2
Relationships
Your Morals
Siddhartha
Politics
Politics part 2
Pissing People Off
Mental Breakdowns
Questions??
Answers
'Good Enough'
Staying Clean
Being Out
Things Nobody Wants to Tell You
Random Thoughts (2? 3? Who knows...?)
Gender Identity
WE DID IT
Growing Up
Suicide
Side Effects
Songs
Therapy Part 2
Being a Bad Person
Entitlement
Drugs & Alcohol
Crying
Therapy part 2
My Advice
A terrifying phone call
My First Session
A notice
A Tumblr Tag
Being Humbled
House of Gold
Your Career
Death
A quick update of my week
Realizations
My relationship with my mom
Drink your fucking water
(St)ages of Depression
Abstinence Education
Learning to forgive
Anxiety, part whatever
How Writing Works
Holidays
Why I have always answered "No" to whether I should be a mother
Alone
Questions Pt. 3!!!!!!!!
Girls
Questions Part 2
Relapsing.
Questions pt. 4
A brief note
Squiggles
HeavyDirtySoul
How to Survive Freshman Year
How to Survive Sophomore Year
Addictions
AP Exams part 1
Mother's Day
A New Chapter
Boy Crushes
Summer
A Friendly Reminder
Dear Zachary
Señorita
Australia
A Proposition
My Symptoms
Celexa
Celexa Update!!!
6th Grade
Current Update
Sex part 2
College
Our Generation
You've Been Chopped
Dig a Little Deeper
Election Day
Election Results
Please ask me things
Now I answer things
Raw Emotions
A Guide to Being an 'Adult'
End of 2016
Things I Love
Life Update
Guilty or Innocent?
Fluidity
Summertime
Pride Month
I'll Be Away
#metoo
Life Update
Questions Pt. ?
Writer's Update
It gets better (and different)

The Days Last a Year and the Years Last a Day

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By Ourharto

My aunt says this frequently, and it's so true. 

Time is such a strange concept, I mean, I can remember days when I was 3-4, but ask me about what I ate last Wednesday and I can only guess. 

This part is more for a particular age, however. I've been an adult for only a short time, but it's fucking weird. With a snap of your fingers people treat you differently. You have a bit more merit, but you're still a kid. 

You're a baby adult, basically.

For example, I can legally sign contracts. When I pierced my nose, I didn't need a parent (which was weird). If things went wrong, my ass was on the line. Nobody else. 

If I break the law?

I'm in the adult's prison. And holy shit. I would probably die in there.

I could buy cigarettes (not to preach but please for the love of fuck, do not. Do not smoke. I've lost too many people to lung cancer and complications due to smoking.), get a tattoo, I got to vote, a shit ton. But the scary part is that nobody gives you a manual. There's no little 'Hey, you're an adult! Get your shit together!' book. 

If there was, I'd order a ton of copies.

It seems like everyone else is thriving, with cute little outfits and internships; with tattoos and artsy vacations. It's a mirage. Trust me. Everyone who's recently an adult feels like they're dying. We don't know what we're doing, we don't know, we don't know.

If you feel like time is just rushing by you, it's okay. We all feel that way. Take a deep breath. One foot in front of the other. You can do this. 

If you have an amiable relationship with your parents or another adultier adult, ask them. They can guide you. I ask my parents the most ridiculous questions. During an application I had to ask if asthma was considered a serious health concern (for those curious, it is). I don't understand taxes. Credit cards keep sending me stuff, and I DON'T WANT A CREDIT CARD. 

Time is so strange. I mean, I'm so so young. But I feel so weird, because I'm aging, and aging is such an odd thing. I'm probably done growing, I'm done with puberty (never got hot. Still salty about it.), and I'm in college.

College: a shit ton of fun until you have finals and realize how little you know.

For example: I only have four exams. Not bad, right? 

Except they're bad. So bad. I don't know what I'm doing, but I'll figure it out. I normally do well so I'll figure my shit out. 

Well, I have to go cram. Toodles. 

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