Hello mga labs! Since kaka-ud ko lang ng bonus chapter for this book, I want to take this chance to say something as one of your ates here sa stan.
I may not be as active as I was before sa twt and even sa pagsusulat, but I am still aware of some happenings sa stan. And something got my attention.
I know, all of us are entitled with our own opinions and beliefs which is why hindi ako palasali sa mga issues or problems na umuusbong sa stan twt, unless, kasama pangalan ko or ako mismo yung topic (wow sikat yarn? 🤣) pero kahit nga ganon, di pa rin ako nag-eengage talaga and I will tell you later why.
Last night, may nakita nanaman akong below the belt na and it bothered me and made me sad at the same time.
Guys, wishing for someone's death, just because he/she doesn't have the same opinions or stand like yours, is definitely not right anymore. I know, we know, you may be feeling disappointed at some point but don't cross that line. Try to put your feet on that person's shoes and imagine na ikaw yung sabihan ng gano'n, how would you feel?
What I want to say is, calm down. Breathe. Try to think twice, thrice or even ten times before saying anything. Is it worth ba your time? Is it worth ba your energy? Will it bring good outcome? Will it change the situation? Will it make you better as a person? If the answers for these questions are all NO, then put down your phone and breathe again. Again, I am saying this as an ate. Nakakabother lang na nag-aaway-away kayo na in the first place, kaya nga tayo nandito sa stan is because we want to make ourselves happy. It's supposed to be our safe/escape place from all the shits in our lives di ba? Please. Let's stop the hate. If may mali talagang nagawa yung tao, okay. Correct them but please, don't forget to be nice pa rin coz you don't know how your words may trigger someone.
I am telling you, mas masarap sa pakiramdam kapag walang kaaway, kapag walang toxicity sa environment. And this is the reason why I don't engage myself on those kind of things. Ayaw niyo ba yon? Ayaw niyo ba ng peace of mind?
I don't know those people so I am telling this to each and every one na nagbabasa ng BTC and Adrift and I hope, you can also tell your other friends sa stan about this. Let's just shower each other some love. Okay? Mas hamak na mas masarap yon sa pakiramdam. Promise.
I don't hate you if isa ka do'n sa mga nagwiwish for someone's death and I won't hate you for that. But think about it, okay? Reflect. You are much better than that my darling 😘
I hope the hate will stop na no matter kung ano man ang issues. Again. You can correct someone if may mali man sila but be nice pa rin. Labs na labs!
See you around kahit busy na ang lola 🌈💗💜