Just Non-Binary Things

Introduction

My name is Cain Graystone (Yes that isn't my real name you'll have to guess that one) I identify as non-binary, and I use they/them/theirs pronouns. (Please respect that!) As you read from the description (maybe) I like the number 4, I have homophobic parents, and non-binary folks are valid! Those are my views thankya very much!

Well then the title is Just Non-Binary Things so I'll tell you some.

I AM CONSTANTLY MISGENDERED. Surprise! Yeah it does get on my nerves but I'm not one of those people who get angry at the person for assuming my gender. I know I have tits but that doesn't mean I'm a girl. (I really want a binder and I'll get to that later) To be honest, I don't care if a stranger misgenders me I just inform them that 'hey pronouns exist and I use they/them ones' and if they see me again I hope they use those. Anyways thats a stuggle that all non-binary folks struggle with every day.

Another struggle I have is to keep this a secret from my parents. Yeah it's a funnn time. Constantly nervous that my teachers will slip up and use my prefered pronouns in front of my parents. (It actually happened once but they didn't realize phew!) Constantly worried that my parents will find my pronoun pin somewhere in my room (they constantly look in my room). Or even the fear that my friends use my prefered name AND pronouns in front of them too. Basically my life is full of anxiety until I graduate and move out (1 year to go bitches!!!). I just really hope that none of you have to go through the same as me, living in the closet because you are scared of what your parents will do if and when they find out.

There is also another thing, getting a binder in a safe way. So I live in the country and I can't drive yet. (I'm 17 and my parents won't let me learn) I have no money at all (not allowed to have a job) and I can't ship a binder to my house in case my parents find it before I do. So roadblock after roadblock. I've been looking for a place that can give out free binders to people in need but they all either don't have any at all in stock or I live too far so I can't receive any. And I have body dysphoria and it's in my chest area. Every morning I hate looking at me and I would rather stay at home instead. So yeah my life is just amazing.

Basically guys, I live in a society xD. It's terrible.

Anyways, peace out guys! I should be studying for a test right now....

I love all my non-binary peoples! Y'all are valid even if people make you think otherwise!