Before we get into how you should handle this situation, let me caution you about ANY guy who drops that "I don't do relationships" line. Know that it's a total load of crap, and is quite possibly the most obvious sign of a guy who is too immature for you. Basically, that line means they're either scared of commitment, or want to just be a player as long as possible. Either way, these guys are rarely worth the effort.
That being said, this guy seems to be throwing out some conflicting messages, but the fact that he only seems to show real interest to you when you're on the phone or other private situations leans towards him being a player. I get that he occasionally shows up somewhere seemingly just to see you, but to be honest, that's a bit more on the creepy/stalker side of things than romantic.
Also, the fact that he shows jealousy and tries to box out other guys is, well, it's a very manipulative move. If he wants to date you, he needs to step up and make that known. If not, all he's doing is making it difficult for you to meet another potential boyfriend. Be careful not to confuse a guy with control issues with one trying to make you feel special. The latter will make his intentions known, while the former is the biggest red flag around.
Regardless of which side he falls on, the reality is that this guy clearly can't make up his mind about what he wants, and his open statement about not wanting to be in a relationship is sort of all you need to know. If you really need 100% confirmation, then be up front with him about your wants. Tell him you'd like to date, and see what he says. I'm guessing he'll be wishy-washy about it, and then you can move on and find a better guy!
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