FM Dax Emmanuel F.
DEF: Hi! :)
Hello DEF!
May problem ako pero hindi related sa mental health ko.
May konting koneksyon naman, pero hindi siya more on that issue.
DEF: But you need an advice?
Oo, sana.
DEF: You are in the right direction. You can talk to me.
Pero di ba Fix Me is for people with issues na kailangan nila ng makakausap?
DEF: Fix Me is for everyone. Kaya nga anonymous tayo. We are strangers to each other. The purpose of this app is to be available for someone who wants to talk but don't have anyone to talk to.
DEF: Hindi naman ibig sabihin na depressed si A, brokenhearted si B ay mas kailangan na bigyan ng atensyon si A.
DEF: We don't measure problems and urgency when we are helping. As long as there is someone who needs us, we will be here for them.
Oh, okay.
DEF: May nagbawal ba sayo na mag-open ng love problems dito?
No, wala. Naisip ko lang kasi Fix Me tapos love life? Anong connect di ba?
DEF: Love can be a serious problem. It can cause heartbreak. It can cause stress. It can make you feel anxious.
DEF: kayceemon, love is something that one must not take for granted. Hindi ibig sabihin na nasaktan ka dahil sa ka-relasyon mo o nag-away kayo ng manliligaw mo halimbawa, hindi ibig sabihin nun kailangan ka na balewalain o wag intindihin. Big problems starts with small ones.
Paano kung siya na pala yung na-take for granted ko?
Paano kung di pa ko sure sa feelings ko sa kanya?
Paano kung gusto na niya na mag-level up kami pero di pa ko ready?
DEF: Then say no. You can say no. You can refuse. You can reject him. At hindi mo kailangan ma-guilty dahil doon.
He's nice. He's a good catch.
Baka nga kaya hindi ko rin siya kayang i-reject because he doesn't deserve it. Hindi siya yung tipo na tatanggihan mo lang.
DEF: If he's all that, why can't you just say yes?
I don't know either.
Sa totoo lang, nagtataka na rin ako.
I surely like the guy. Masarap siyang kasama. He make me smile, he make me laugh, he make me happy.
Hindi ko rin alam kung bakit hindi ako maka-isip ng dahilan kung bakit hindi ko magawang um-oo sa kanya.
DEF: Maybe because you are not yet ready. Maybe because you are forcing yourself to accept him kasi alam mong katanggap-tanggap naman siya.
DEF: In love, everyone is stupid. Kahit anong sabihin mong magandang bagay tungkol sa kanya, kapag hindi mo ramdam na handa ka, kapag hindi mo ramdam na mahal mo siya, hinding-hindi ka sasagot ng oo sa kanya.
Nakokonsensya ako.
DEF: Don't be. I'm sure he'll understand.
DEF: It's better to reject the person because you cannot grasp what you really feel about them kaysa have a relationship that is not wholeheartedly given.
Kinikilig ako sa kanya eh.
He's sweet. He's thoughtful. He's caring. He's kind. I can feel that he genuinely like me.
DEF: Are you convincing me or are you convincing yourself? I think it's the latter.
Should I reject him now?
DEF: I pity whoever he is, pero for me, oo ngayon pa lang patigilin mo na. Kapag pinatagal mo pa kasi, mas lalo siyang aasa. Mas lalo siyang masasaktan sa huli kapag hindi mo kayang ibalik yung nararamdaman niya.
DEF: Wasting time will never make something worth the wait. May mga bagay na worth the wait, oo. Pero minsan, hindi na natin kailangan patagalin ang mga bagay bagay para lang malaman kung worth it ba yun.
DEF: Sometimes, we need to live in the moment. Hindi lahat ng bagay kailangan sukatin.
You disconnected the chat.
