"Family is supposed to be our safe haven. Very often, it's the place where we find the deepest heartache."
-Iyanla Vanzant
Aren't you just annoyed with the fact that you have overbearing parents. They tend to show you off with other people like they just planned to have a child for their own interests.
Starting off with a mother who complains a lot and who's likely arrogant with her possessions.
Forcingly taking what is shared to her family as her own. Reminding you how worse it is for you to live in the house.
Showing you the kind of hell you're living.
Imagine having a workaholic Father who lives on his traditionalist ideology.
Keeping you in captivity as he forces his opinions on you. As you grow up, he continues to disparage your preferences and forsaken your achievements.
You have lived for his expectations even if it kills your identity.
How do you even cope with overbearing parents?
How do you live with complications that your parents keep bringing you?
The constant dissatisfaction as they find the fault in your flaws. Blaming your failure to your own abilities, your assets and your own proficiency.
Focusing on your own misstep when they are lacking on multiple parenthood counsel.
They brought you to an experimentation facility. Practicing their incompetence on the family they have built. Providing you with half- baked parenting.
What keeps them going?
Their persistent expectations are tying you down. Keeping you in their level as they shame your whole existence.
It's time you withdraw from toxicity found in your family. It has changed your demeanour and what you can do is live for your own goals.
Your purpose is to be who you want yourself to be.
You are not a pushover.
You don't let them get to you.
Let your fulfillment be your evidence that you are not them.
Let your success guide you to your perfection.
"Your greatest responsibility is to love yourself and to know you are enough."
- Chetna Mishra
IT's TIME TO LET THE WORLD SEE YOU FOR WHO YOU REALLY ARE
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Overweening (COMPLETED)
General FictionThey are guiding you to your own destruction
