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Tips On A Successful Date

Dress to Impress

Be sure to look your best. First impressions are never forgotten. There’s never a second chance to make a first impression.

On the first introduction do not go to a movie

Do not go to a movie on the first introduction, or you will have no opportunity to get to know each other.

Do not meet in a coffee shop on your lunch break.

Recommendation: the first introduction be for dinner, preferably early on Saturday evening, in a quiet, romantic restaurant, where you will be relaxed and have plenty of time to get to know each other. It is also a good idea for the woman to select the restaurant.

Do not talk subjects that’re not related

On the first introduction, avoid subjects not related to the two of you—such as world hunger. Men—do not talk about your ex-wife. Women—do not talk about your last date or relationship.

Show your best side with merry and light conversation

On your first date, show your best side, with light conversation and a sense of humor. Don’t be grouchy. If your date is a doctor, do not discuss your medical problems. If your date is a lawyer, do not ask for legal advice. If your date is a psychiatrist, do not talk about your emotional hang-ups.

Do not talk about premature subjects

On your first date, do not talk about premature subjects, such as marriage, future children or whether the wife will work after the wedding. Avoid these topics and work out the chemistry first.

Do not be rude with the person you have no special

If there is no chemistry on the first meeting, end the date on a positive note. Don’t be rude or walk out. Maybe this person has a friend who is exactly right for you. It has happened!

Make the initial telephone contact for your second

If you both decide to have a second meeting, the woman should not become over anxious if he doesn’t call immediately following the first date. Although the man must make the initial telephone contact, it is now permissible for the woman to call the man, leave a friendly message on his machine, or write a short note letting him know how much you enjoyed your evening together.

Do not rush into a decision

If you’re undecided after the first date, don’t rush into a decision. Think about it for a week or so before calling me.

Make a entirely unforgetable second meeting

If you do decide on a second meeting, make this an entirely different kind of event where you will see each other in a new light. Choose a casual afternoon outing, such as a stroll on the beach, bicycle ride or picnic by the lake, where you can wear comfortable clothing.

Do who you are on the third meeting

On the third date, you are on your own. I suggest the woman allow the man to suggest a cultural or entertainment event, whether it be an art exhibition, museum, ballet, opera or rock concert.

Do not leave your number to anyone

Never give your introduction’s phone number to any other person. Phone numbers are confidential. If you wish to hear the feedback from your introduction, I will be honest with you. But do not call this person and complain about the feedback given—i.e., "How dare you say I am overweight," etc.

BBe Calm

You should be calm and should try to make the other person feel comfortable. It’s your first meet and you should first start with friendly conversations to gain the other person’s confidence. Find about your date’s interest and talk on common interests. Say something nice about your date and compliment him or her. Don’t think about the outcome instead try to make a good impression on the other person and exchange valuable information which will help you decide whether you both should pursue a relationship or not.