1. INSTAGRAM – TO DELETE ALL MY POST ON INSTAGRAM
Okay. This is the first thing I will do on the first day of 2018. I'm going to delete all my post on my Instagram and I'm not going to post any going forward. I don't know but I think Instagram is not my kind of thing. I guess Instagram is meant for rich people or happy people or brilliant or unique people. It's just not me.
2. COMPARING MY LIFE TO MY OLD FRIENDS ON SOCIAL MEDIA OR ON WHAT THEY DO IN THEIR LIFE
Every human being have different plot in life. No one is sharing the same plot. Remember that! So stop comparing yours with them, and stop thinking what they do. Just focus on yours – what are you going to do? Make a plan, decide what you want to do even if it's the craziest thing. Make it. Do it.
3. WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF ME
Stop thinking what others will think of you. Let them be; as long as they didn't touch you, as long as they didn't mess with you and your life. Just do whatever you want to do by not thinking what others will think of you.
4. TALK ABOUT OTHERS OR GOSSIPING
This one thing that I'd like to avoid the most. You know sometimes I don't want to but people keep talking about it and you think what I'm going to respond? I just pretend that I agree with them when I don't really want to. I'd really want to say, "Guys can we drop this subject?" or "Sorry, no comment."
5. THINKING WHY I'M STILL NOT GETTING WHAT I WANT
Never stop believing and never give up. There's must be a reason why you still not getting what you want. Sometimes we don't always get what we want. Maybe, it can be that it is bad for you and there's something good are awaiting for you. It's just not now. All you need to do is not give up. Forget what will happen. Just live presently; live your life to the fullest.
6. TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP
Okay, this one it's not mean that I will stop looking for the right partner but I'm just taking a break for wishing to be in a relationship – like it will not be my focus by the time I am 25. I am still searching for it but not too obsess. I will just go with the flow. I'm going to learn to love myself first, to explore the world alone. I am also going to spend my time with my families, to take care of them. I'm going to heal myself, to become strong again. (I know it's going to be hard but I'll try.)
-just.a.thought, 171017
