Advice #4 ~ Parent Troubles

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Q: so Keira and I were texting and she started talking about *LGBTQ+ stuff, but my mom got the messages. My parents are muslim, so they dont support that (I do though.100%). My mom told me to never talk to Keira again and to stop being friends with her and to NEVER talk to her again, and I dont want to hurt Keke's feeling, disobey my mom, or stop being friends with Keira BECAUSE SHE IS MY BEST FRIEND AND MY LIFE IS SHITTY ENOUGH AND IF I CANT HAVE HER I WILL LEGIT HAVE A MENTAL BREAKDOWN. Im really confused and sad and IDK what to do.. please help

lalaloli2

*Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans, Queer


A: This seems like a hard situation, but I think I can help you. You can possibly "negotiate" with your mom and set up a time where you and Keira can meet. You guys already meet each other at school, so that's a starter. If your mom does not get better with this whole situation, then you can possibly say to your mom that you won't talk about this stuff in front of her. Your mom might think that your friend was talking about this, even through she got the messages, as well. This might also take a few days. After a few days, ask your mom again and maybe she will change her answer. Sometimes parents have a shock about something, but then change their answer another day. I hope this advice works for you, and I absolutely HOPE that you and Keira can be friends without disobeying your parents. And also, I respect that you don't want to disobey your parents. I hope you and Keira can be friends again. I don't want either of you to get a mental breakdown...

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