Gender seems to be a big deal right now. Well with me it is. I can not decide what I am. I do not want to be a boy but I also do not want to be a girl. I have tried to tell my parents, but it didn't help. My mother is okay with it, but my father is not. He tells me that I can not change who I am witch is exactly what he is trying to do. If I can't change myself, why are you trying to get me to feel something I don't want to feel? Being like this or genderfluid as they normaly call it can be confusing, but if that's how you really feel then stick with it just be happy with who you are. Your gender does not define who you are you define who you are wither you are a boy, girl, both or even neither you are still you, and you should be happy about that. I know how hard it can get even to the point that you would rather die then stay in your body, but that isn't the answer even though it seems like it is at the time.
Yes I was born female, yes i have worn a dress and yes at times I feel like a female. To be honest though I do not feel like a girl every day, and after all you can't spell female with out male. so if you want to look at it that way you can. if you like the body your in great and if you don't well I'm sorry I know there are ways to get that changed but if you are young and your parents do not agree then, well you have no choice but to wait. Even if you are older it cost money and a lot of it to be exact. So I am deeply sorry if you feel that way but I am going to tell you something to help possibly. Well it's what I do at least.
If you are girl but want to be a boy I would say to cut your hair in a style you like, I do know some parents will not allow it my parents do not so i wear a pony tail and put my hair into my hat. About the chest area you can buy a binder or medical wrap, but medical wrap is dangerous to wear for long periods of time. With how tight it has to be it can crush your ribs, and with the binder those also cost money and sometimes you can not get them so i would suggest sports bras and baggy cloths. As for pants I just wear baggy pants for the days that I feel like a boy. You can wear skinny jeans also if you would like to. Shoes aren't much of an issue at least not for me I know it can be for some people but they do have female shoes that do look very masculine.
As for a guy I am not very good at this since I am not a guy who wants to be a girl but I will try my best out of what I have seen. I would say wear tighter clothing like skinny jeans or shorter shorts with tights. Some people can not get these things either but they also do make skinny jeans for boys so that would possibly just have to do. You can also grow out your hair and if you can not just style it in a girly way such as with hair clips and bobby pins and all that stuff. You can wear makeup if you are allowed or if you have any access to it. If you do not well your face can still be feminine such as wearing a sertaint type of glasses. You can also wear necklaces such as chokers or something with jewls on it. The shoes you can get some bright colors and wear those.
I will say I am not qualified to tell you this infermation such as I only have excperiance from the one side and do not knnow much about a male to female transition. If there is anything I could do to help though I would be happy too.
