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How to calm down an Angry Bull

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The Angry red fierce Bull in this context is no one but You.

Yes You, Me, All of us.

A few days ago, I'd been to this Church where the Priest during the Sermon brought up this topic - Anger Management.

Seems like two easy words..
But when you actually think about it, It's not that Easy.

We often speak Harsh, bad, hateful, words that could hurt someone very close to you. Words once spoken cannot be taken back. Similarly, when a thread breaks , it can be tied back, but the Knot remains.

They Forgive, but they don't forget.

All of us have lost our temper at a certain point of time. I've always told you , when someone spreads negativity. Don't give it back. Instead try to calm down. Think about an effective solution. Address it to the person in a calm, consulting way. Try to get it through their minds.

But we don't do that.

In the heat of the moment , we just blabber shit that comes to our minds.
Hate on each other for years. Abuse each other , which is so wrong.

I mean Hey Angry Bull, Drink a Red Bull, Grow some wings and fly away from this shit 😂😂

It's very easy to get Angry, But Its even more Difficult to calm yourself down and make a right move.

I'm not saying that when you're being teased, bullied, or mocked by some retarded people , you should keep quiet. NO!

But getting angry, trying to suicide, self harm, or even trying to make murder plans about the opposite person is very wrong😂

See if you can solve it Verbally.

Try not to get Angry on what people might say about you.

Let's practice this
Imagine your Brother / Sister teasing you about your biggest insecurity.

Step 1 : Take a deep breath.
Step 2 : Ignore.

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They'll eventually get tired and go back.

A few things the Priest said was

1. Whenever you're in an angry mood, it affects your Blood Pressure. Meaning , even if you're trying to hurt back someone, you're infact just double hurting yourself. So Stop!!

2. During an Argument, avoid bringing up somebody's past. It creates a deep wound into their hearts and just worsens the whole thing.

3. When you think you're gonna get Angry at something. Be prepared. Try to ignore what they say. Keep yourself calm.

4. When you think someone is wrong, tell them in a good way. You see, when someone already in a puddle tries to splash dirt on you. You don't jump into it and ruin your shoes.

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Was quite weird for me to see a priest talk about something so critical . I thought they were only meant to spread the God's word😂

But I was happy that Finally somebody brought it up .

Something that's much needed in our society.

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