Secretly Yours

CLXXXVIII

[Messenger]

Karina Chanel Garcia

8:05 p.m.

Kachi
I'm gonna continue na Mikey

Mikey
Go ahead.

Kachi
Second, dapat kilala mo si Ate Robin.
You should know her well whether she likes yung big and grand surprises or mas prefer niya ba yung intimate na kayong dalawa lang during those times.

Actually, pwede naman yung grand surprises pero kayong dalawa lang din present dun para intimate pa rin

Mikey
Example?

Kachi
Arrange a boat date
Meron kayo diba?
Sa puerto galera?

Mikey
Oh... yup.

Kachi
And don't believe them if they say they don't like flowers kasi sayang kapag pinipitas. They like receiving flowers nonetheless. If ayaw ni Ate yung pinipitas, then give her something na nasa pot, yung may ugat pa so she can take care of it and the plant can last longer or yung flowers na preserved

Mikey
Okay. I'll note this one. 

Kachi
Take initiative. Especially when you stay sa iisang place. Have you done overnights?

Mikey
Yes. I stayed over her place last week.

Kachi
Okay, that's a good.
Take initiative. For example sa chores. If you're done eating and walang hugasin sa lababo, hugasan mo na agad. If puno na yung trash, palitan mo na and take it out. Kapag makalat, clean up. Kahit pa sabihin ni Ate Robin na she'll take care of it.

She'll appreciate you doing those things even before she could ask you.

Mikey
Okay okay

Kachi
Following that, be attentive. Women are so attentive of your needs kaya please, be the same. It doesn't take a lot. We do it all the time. Kapag attentive ka that also means you're present. Iba kasi yung magkasama nga kayo tapos wala dun yung utak mo. Showing up means nothing if your presence is not there. So be attentive.

Mikey
Yup. I won't forget this one.
Thanks, Kachi.

Kachi
Last one. But this one is more on them than on your part.

Mikey
Ano yun?

Kachi
They always appreciate your effort. Big or small. Kaya nga when I said a woman does so much for you tapos all it takes on your part are the bare minimum? That's because they easily recognize the effort kaya they easily appreciate those things.

You may think na nakakapagod mag take initiative, maging attentive, mag isip ng memorable dates at tandaan lahat ng details na importante. I want you to know na they never get tired of it. If anything, doing those things for you makes them happy (unless they feel like they're being taken for granted). So I hope it's the same for you. Don't do it kasi obligation mo. Do it because seeing them happy and loved also makes you happy.