Finding the love of my/your life.
FINDING MY NEMO
A marriage preparation:
Proverbs 18:22
The man who finds a wife finds a treasure, and he received favor from the LORD.
"Marriage is sweet, but if you marry the wrong person, it is like Covid-19 everyday new cases."
PRINCIPLES FOR CHOOSING MY NEMO
A. Eliminate the seven primary cause of faulty mate selection
1. The decision to get married is to made quickly
2. 2. The decision is made at a young age.
3. 3. One or both persons are too eager to marry.
4. 4. One or both may be choosing a mate to please someone else.
5. 5. The experience base is too narrow.
6. 6. The couple has unrealistic expectations.
7. 7. One or both may have unaddressed significant personality or behavioural problems.
5 OTHER KEY PROBLEMS
1. Anger Management
2. Disorders
a. Autism
b. ADHD
c. Narcissism
e. Sociopath
f. Psychopath
3.Manic Depressive Disorder
4.Addictions
5. Parental Issue.
B. Find a person to love who is lot like you.
" Every difference you have required negotiation and adaption"
C. Get yourself healthy before you get yourself ready.
" Being Healthy and Mature are very important"
> The foundation of Mental Health.
> Self-Concept -- the very center of every persons emotional and mental functioning.
> You cannot maintain healthy internal control of your life if your self-esteem is low and your self-confidence is shaky.
> Parenting is leadership and leadership is for mature people.
D. Develop a clear mental image of your ideal spouse.
> The choosing of your mate
a. PERSONALITY
"Quiet or Talkative"
" Funny or Serious"
" Soft or Tough"
" Laidback or easygoing"
b. INTELLIGENT
"Analytical or Intuitive"
" Thinker or feeler"
c. APPEARANCE
d. CHARACTER
e. CREATIVITY
f. AMBITIONS
g. CHEMISTRY
h. AUTHENTICITY
E. Find a love you can feel deep in your heart and express it carefully.
> LET'S SIMPLIFY
1. PHYSICAL ATTRACTION
2. 2. EMOTIONAL SPARK
F. Refuse to proceed until you can genuinely pledge your lifelong commitment.
G. Celebrate your marriage with the full support of your family and friends .
Respectfully credits to the real owner:
"Finding my Nemo"
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