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5 - ✨the first time✨

LYFL

what you all been waiting for...

...the story of my first time.

okay so tbh i'll just tell you my whole experience and at the end i'll give u some advice or in general things you should be aware of. whaaa i am fucking excited okay.

imma start off with good news: my first time was great and altough everybody says "tHe FirSt TiMe iS alWayS hOrrIbLe" i can tell you that this IS NOT TRUE! (so don't be fucking scared💕)

the funny part about this experience is how me and my boyfriend (since january 1st '21) got to the point of ✨DOING IT✨.
(side note: he had done it before, once... 3 years ago, so it was basically his 2nd first time, but he knew what he was doing.)
(another side note, i am currently 17 and he's 18, we're only 11 months apart and we're both turning older this year.)

here comes the story (get sum popcorn bitches🍿📽🍷🔞)
we've been dating since the beginning of the year and have been pretty open about the whole topic. he knew about all the guys i had a thing with before him and i knew about all the girls he knew before me. (i was more of a hoe than him) i knew that he was ✨ready to have sex with me✨ and he knew that i was ✨ready✨ BUT neither of us could figure out why i still didn't wanna do it altough i knew i was ready. (ik sounds conplicated)

idk it till today actually, i was ready, but i was holding back for some reason. maybe it was cuz i hadn't known him for a long time or maybe it was cuz i wanted things to be 100% serious between us, i wanted it to work out.

so there you go with the basic information, now - how did we actually get there in the end.

it was february 6th, a saturday, and i was spending the night at his house. (i had been sleeping over a couple of times before) so we were actually out, spending some time with my toxic best friend💅🏻💕 and got back home at 3am on sunday, february 7th. he was tired af and immediately went to bed and i was mad MAD cuz i had given him a ✨blowjob✨ twice when we were showering the evening before and hadn't gotten anything back yet, so i was MAD AT HIM.

i was texting about it with my toxic best friend until i decided to CONFRONT my boyfriend although he was almost sleeping. (by now it was almost 4am) so i did as i said and he kinda apologized and decided to stay awake with me for a little longer, cuddling with me. after some time i noticed that he was getting a little touchy an knew exactly what that lil mothefucker was up to.

so he finally gave me SOMETHING back. (lmao) tbh i was curious if we could fit more than 2 fingers inside me (oh lord) so i told him to try it and ALL FOUR FIT!!(meow🐱) that was when i realized omg maybe the ✨d✨ fits aswell. (yk cuz of the widths nd shit)

so we were kinda just cuddling and i started talking about how i really don't know why i didn't wanna do it yet. he joined the conversation and we once again tried to figure it out. we eventually came to conclusion that ALL FOUR 👆 fit and that i can trust him that he'll stop if i tell him to. so we said "let's just try it:🐱💅🏻💕✨ (first i was mad at him for being tired, now i am deciding to have my first time with him. look how the tables have turned🤡)

i don't think i need to explain to y'all in detail how my first time went, but i'll try my best to note the main points lmao.

probably the biggest reason why my first time was (and is) so special to me, is cuz we told each other "i love you" before it happened. like RIGHT BEFORE it went ✨inside✨. to all my virgins out there. pls DON'T think it goes right in, like straight up all the way. NO no no no, that's not how it works. if the guy does that, yes it's gonna hurt.

first advice: for the beginning, ONLY the tip and SMALL movements, otherwise it's gonna strech you out and it's gonna hurt.

for my part, i let him push it in until i started feeling uncomfortable, then i told him to wait so i could ✨adjust to it.✨ when i was ready i told him to geep going, but it hurt a little so i told him to stop again. (ladies you can say STOP as many times as you want, don't be worried!) i took a second an told him to just start moving without going deeper and it worked. so there you go, that's the proof for the advice i just gave you.💅🏻 (if you start with small movements it automatically starts going inside further and you don't really notice so it's a lot more comfortable.) also pls don't think just cuz you had your first time it won't be uncomfortable on your 2nd, 3rd or 6th time. it takes a couple of times until you feel more comfortable with it.

something i can also recommend is trying different positions. (it literally doesn't matter if it's your first time or not) in my opinion, missionary is definitely NOT the most comfortable position. riding is a good option cuz us woman can best feel how far we wanna go. (again just cuz it's your first time doesn't mean you can't be on top) another position, that actually made my first time so damn good, ✨doggy/backshots✨. (pls don't worry about a guy seeing ur butthole it's fucking normal and you can just turn the lights off)

second advice: BE CONFIDENT! and also have a positive mindset, just have fun. try as many things as you want with your partner and communicate. yes fucking communicate, tell him what u like, what u don't like and so on. and if u feel nervous and excited (in a bad way) i suggest u wait on having your first time.

another thing that is really important in my opinion is the 💦wetness.💦 by now i've had sex with my boyfriend so many times i stopped counting, but there is still a tiny problem sometimes. and that is if i'm wet or not. like believe me, i AM horny, but sometimes i'm just not getting wet. and i know i am not the only one with that problem. in fact many women have this issue and it's completely normal. so one day i was thinking about it and i decided to go to the store and get some lubricant.✨💦🐱 yes you could also use spit or babyoil, but in my (and my bf's) opinion neither is as SLIPPERY as lubricant. (lmao) some libricants also have a flavour so if ur gonna suck his d after the nasty, it's gonna taste good.😭😂

third advice: you need to be real WET! it's much more comfortable for both of you and ✨it✨ slides in way more easily.

i think i can't tell you much more than this, i think that was a lot of specific information lmao. if you have any questions feel free to ask, i literally don't care telling y'all anything after this chapter.

KIA TALKS!

tEA☕
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