Simple as that
I don't think I'm someone who plays the victim when I literally blame everything on myself. I know how to hold myself accountable. When I've messed up, I can own up to my wrongs, I know exactly what I did wrong that may have caused problems.
I even apologize when I've done nothing wrong. I say "sorry" when it's not even necessary on my part, just to keep the peace.
I don't fight for myself in heated situations, because it'll only make matters worse.
But I stopped doing that, no I'm not going to apologize in situations where I'm not wrong, no I'm not going to feel bad when I've done nothing wrong.
There are a lot of times where I've been the victim.
And there are times where I've been the villain.
There are times where I'm both. I can admit that.
So, when I'm told that I play the victim it ticks me off, because that's not even in my character to do, when I'm wrong, I'm wrong. When I'm right, I'm right, simple as that. -J.S.