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Ahh ghosting. The epidemic that's plaguing millennials in the dating world. With ghosting becoming more the norm than ever, dating has become nearly  impossible to begin with.

Add in your typical fuckboy to the ghosting epidemic and you've got a dating disaster times 10!

It's pretty much no secret that when you're dealing with fuckboys, that you are bound to  get ghosted on the regular.

Whenever I've found myself dealing with a fuckboy, I knew that eventually they'd go ghost on me in one of two instances: 1)when things were going REALLY well or 2)when things were getting "too serious".

The "good"(and I use that term loosely) part about being ghosted by a fuckboy is that once you've been ghosted by one... or two, you can tell when the ghosting(and fuckery) is near. And because fuckboys are predictable and I find to be pretty routine, like with everything they do, they will tell on themselves, or their next moves. If you  haven't caught on by now , when a fuckboy moves he is always two things: routine & calculated. Remember that ladies. Star it and bookmark it.

So when it comes to fuckboys and ghosting-especially fuckboys and ghosting, if you think that they aren't gonna do the dip on you out of nowhere you got another thing coming. It's expected, it's predictable and it's bound to happen at some point or another so the best thing you can do is to be prepared for when it happens.

After being ghosted by fuckboys one too many times, I've picked up on their ways and have come up with a few tips and tricks of my own to help soften or lessen the blows.

Tip #1: Don't get attached. I know this sounds so obvious but you'd be pretty surprised how many women wind up fucking themselves over by getting too attached to a fuckboy (*raises hand in shame*). I can't tell you how many times I've knowingly and unknowingly got swept up by a fuckboys...err...umm... "charms" and get ghosted.

Tip #2: Keep your guard up. I know it can be mentally exhausting having to constantly keep your guard up-ESPECIALLY when you're looking to be with someone who you DON'T have to be so guarded around, but trust me when I tell you ladies, letting your guard down around a fuckboy is NOT a good idea. Because they aren't mentally mature, ready or the least bit interested in getting to know you on a deeper level. To be blunt- they don't give a fuck about you letting your guard down and aren't gonna think twice when they ghost you. They don't care enough about you to consider your guard or your feelings so keeping your guard up is a must.

Tip #3: Beat them at their own game. Because fuckboys are well versed in all the fuck shit, the best way not to get got is to beat them at their own game. When it comes to ghosting, because you know it's coming, the best way to avoid getting your little heart torn up is to do the tearing. Be the ghoster not the ghostee. Yes, I know it sounds harsh and is 100 % petty but if you haven't seen by now, when it comes to fuckboys(and their fuck shit) being petty sometimes is the only(and best) way to go. Trust me, if you think for one second a fuckboy cares about your feelings or even considers your feelings before ghosting you-think again. I learned that the hard way so don't think twice at beating  a fuckboy at their own damn game.

Of course, even with these tips and your intuition, a fuckboy can ghost you out of nowhere. I've seen the most savvy and smartest of women get ghosted by a fuckboy out of nowhere unexpectedly. Whether they are young fuckboys or older fuckboys (more on older fuckboys later), fuckboys are gonna ghost and there's just no way around it. Sometimes it'll happen no matter how much you prepare and the best thing you can do is accept it and keep pushing.

Next time you find yourself about to get ghosted by a fuckboy, remember- don't get got; be the "ghost getter".