meme book || 3

Ruff

My dad kinda just called me a whore, or told me I dressed like one ??

Totally random, and I'd actually been thinking about this exact scenario happening. It was a random hypothetical situation I made up about me possible being harassed by a guy, then my dad being mad at me cause I was dressed in a way that attracts creepy guys. And I even thought about him calling me names like that, I was contemplating if he actually would and I came to a conclusion he could but I wasn't certain. Cause yk he's still my dad and I'm sure he'd have some kind of respect for me

But then he actually kinda called me a whore today, and I didn't really know what to do

I have these ripped jeans, I'll admit they are a bit excessive but they're really cute. My mom really likes them and my school has never cared about them, I've worn them to school for two years and no one has said a thing to me cause it doesn't matter

But this morning he asked me where the rest of my clothes were and all that dumb shit it's whatever, dumb jokes or whatever.

But then after school I was in the dining room with him, he was putting some furniture together and told me he talked to his coworkers about my clothes

He's brought up my clothing to his coworkers before for some reason idk, he's fucking weird

Then he said his coworker told him this chris rock joke, and he told it to me

"I'd never call my daughter a whore, but all I'm saying is she's wearing the uniform" or some shit like that

It didn't really affect me then when he said it, I got really quiet and just walked away

Like wtf, I haven't been feeling like myslef lately at all either

Like I've felt like shit, I feel so out of place everywhere I go. I feel so unwanted by everyone even if it's not the case, I just feel like I'm taking up so much space in everyone's lives

It's so suffocating and this is just fucinf with me

He's such a fucinf asshole I can't do this anymore

Also friendly reminder that clothing has no impact on wether or not you will be harassed or assaulted. The most modestly dressed and least conventionally attractive ppl get harassed just as much as everyone else

These are not factors, and ppl need to stop acting like it is

If your wearing the revealing clothing you were asking for it, if you weren't then there's no motive. If you aren't coventionally attractive of course no one's is going to want to r word you

Like it's such dumb logic, it makes so snese but it's how everyone brains are wired

My father told me I dress like a whore today, like what the absolute fuck?? Who says that to their fuciinf daughter ??

Anyway vids that I got as this is all happening that made me cry a little and are getting helping me through idk