We come across zillions of people each of an unique kind with their own flaws,their own love side and yet we start making opinions about them when we have no idea about them.
I noticed a quote and it read"Judge not and you shall not be judged"firstly what is it when you judge someone? it's just some unknown opinion you set in your mind about those people to whom you've barely spoken a word..you judge or maybe we judge people for every single thing.. That includes either their relationship status,gender,caste, religion, language, academic performance, background and what not!!? Don't ever judge people by other people's views and talks that doesn't make sense. We are told things about people every single day don't pay heed to those words because everyone has a different perspective, you judge people and you are just being judged yourself. Half of the introverts out there are just being an introvert because not everyone wants to understand them,they contribute their part by judging them over again. Till today I'm dealing with this stuff no one can escape this but you just have to try. Certainly, there are people out there who will understand you.Every single day we go through this cycle of judgements and it's easy told than getting done
People will keep judging you unless you stand to your ground.If it's because of your fear crush it out of your mind..if your emotions are made a joke step out of that circle and most importantly do not ignore or stay silent..half the time it never ends.
At a point of time you give up..you let those bluffy comments define you! Though you're affected by all those things never show it to others just fight em all that's the right thing. Each time you ignore,choose to stay silent it paves a way for them to put up the show. Speak up on your behalf because no one will do that for you just don't let them affect you so much. Judgy people will always judge they'll never give respect to your feelings so they're not worth caring for. We judge someone just because we want to feel superior,a better person than them. Put yourself in their shoes you'll understand how much it hurts people...
