How can you love somebody who hurts you? How can you stay with them when all they do is give you pain? He insults you, but you still stay, telling yourself everything will get better..even though you know it won't. It's dangerous, that's what you know. Over 1 million women are involved with domestic violence. 9% of the victim go for help. The rest stay with the abuser, thinking it'll get better.. It's dangerous. It's domestic violence.. But he said he will do it again.. But he lied. And she wanted to say, "STOP!" But that would make everything worse..