So I don't know about my cousin but this started happening when my sister was 9 and for her it started a little earlier then for me and my cousin.
My sister:
When all of it started well she thought that he did it because she did something wrong or she didn't deserve to live. So for her it was suicidal thoughts. When all this came out she told me that she felt guilty because if she would have told sooner then it would have never happens to me or my cousin.
My cousin:
So I don't really know much and I don't want to ask him because it might bring up bad memories but I do know that his didn't happen as frequent as me and my sister. It probably would if he lived with us. His was different because all of ours were but I can tell you that he fear was that he would get in trouble. His fear was that he wouldn't see us again and that if he told about us that no one would believe him. He was scared. Sorry but that is all I can tell you about the different stories.
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-BONNY
-9/8/18